remember people do not always see you the way you see yourself but the way you see yourself has a way of reflecting in the way you relate with people so as has been said to you already, you have taken the first step by building a relationship with God and with God and in God you will have your desires met.
have faith, be presentable and approachable,
stay behind after church for a little while and interact with people and soon someone will take interest in you.
will I find someone who will love me and embrace my kids?
Posted : 26 Dec, 2016 01:06 PM
Hi
yes you will especially if you've train your kids well and they're well mannered because very few people would want to have the burden of two insolent boys on them but more people will love to have you and them if they'll not be a burden.
Looking at all the questions you've asked in the other groups, I must say you're a very confused person and need serious help if you wish to find a partners that you'll remain with
There are many reasons that lead men into infidelity
1. Men are natural predators and always want to pursue so from the day you stop making yourself to be pursued and become an easy prey, they start loosing interest. and start looking for other prey to start pursuing.
2. Women are more or less like trophies to men so a man who doesn't fear God feels proud of himself for the number of trophies he's got in his collection.
3. Most men have their own fantasies of the type of woman they would want to be with but realistically he cannot find all those fantasies, desires or expectations in one woman because no one person can possess it all.
4. For most men sex is not an emotional act its just like nibbling on something when you're hungry unlike women sex is more than the physical act "it is giving a part of themselves out" reason why a man can have sex with just any woman and a woman would not