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JamesHosie

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Most women here on CDFF appear not to be true believers
Posted : 1 Oct, 2020 08:12 AM

There are undoubtedly some who aren't true believers here, but at the same time we have to be wary of being judgemental, for we cannot see into people's hearts.
JamesHosie

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Have you ever been ghosted, or has ghosted someone?
Posted : 1 Oct, 2020 08:11 AM

I have been ghosted.



Including recently, sadly, which was very hurtful.



I think ghosting is acceptable if the other person is abusive or creepy.



However, most of the time, there's no excuse for it.



Though it hurts, I would much rather the other person tell me they weren't interested. That is much better than simply going silent and giving me no closure.



You have to see ghosting positively, though it can and does take time to recover from it.



You did nothing wrong. The person who ghosted is the one who did something wrong.



And you are better off without the person who ghosted, for they showed their true colours. They revealed themselves as someone who is immature and who is perhaps even narcissistic.



If you had remained in that relationship, it would have been a miserable one. Or if it led to a relationship, it would have been miserable.



So, in a way, you have been blessed, though I know from experience it is painful.



You deserve so much better than whoever ghosted.



You want someone who genuinely cares about you and wants to be in your life.
JamesHosie

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Hello
Posted : 1 Oct, 2020 08:03 AM

Hello, my name is James.



I am from Dundee, Scotland.



I am interested in all kinds of art.



I am creative.



I am on here to develop a friendship, and see if it can develop.



I am happy to be on here.
JamesHosie

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A QUESTION TO THE MEN
Posted : 1 Oct, 2020 03:55 AM

I am open to it.



The only bad thing about is is that I don't have the money right now to travel to another country.



But if she had the money and was willing to see me, I would be fine by it.



And I would save up money to see her.



Relationships shouldn't be one way streets.