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Some of the best chef's are men
Posted : 18 Jul, 2021 08:33 AM

We all have passions, that is a good place to invest time, it produces results and at the end of it we become approved, talent for the most is just hard work applied many times, innate talent can lead to laziness...and we guys just love to sit back and relax....LOL...but if you ask a question we'll often get out the tools that we have learned to use and find our application.....no screwdriver? a hammer will do....manuals? NAH! well...on occaision when it doesn't follow common sense....or the designer of the product was a womean...then we are completely stuck....I jest...designing things for everyday or hobby use is really difficult, you have to make it fool proof...ask any man with a hammer....he'll know what I'm speaking about....God gave us understanding, that's why we are to worship Him with all our strength all our heart and all our MIND....if we apply ourselves to understanding and excersise our mind we then have the ability to worship Him in that area, because it is like an athlete who trains to win a prize.....
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What do you want to know about MEN?
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 03:59 PM

dunno...why do you ask?
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Are Concubines the new Girlfriends?
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 03:55 PM

Are Concubines the new Girlfriends? if I have a concubine, I am responsible for everything, plus I get the benefits of intimate relations....but she cannot inherit...is that a common law wife? yup....Judaeo Christian Law, hidden in plain sight.



I read the Word and cannot find anything that forbids me having 100 wives! unless I'm a pastor.....serves yourself right!



In jest I speak of human relationship that the Word portrays, we like to sanitise the Word and make it fit into our doctrinal ways, so the real question ought to be, does our concept of human relations fit in with the Word, or do we just pick and choose according to heart and cultural ways? are you challenged? I hope so.



PS for clarity I don't do girlfriends or concubines, but still, the question stands....should I get 100 wives?
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How do you differentiate one woman from another?
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 03:22 PM

Perhaps you confuse the ability to empathise with spirituality? it is easy to do, women tend to fair better in the church because they organise themselves according to traits, they do it better than we for the most part, but do you think that someone who has talent cannot also be a devil? the only way to know for sure is to put them to the test, ask the Most High.....and if she draws water for your animals unbidden, then you know she's the real deal, but then.....it all depends where you are in your walk, be not unequally yoked,,,,a help meet helps to meet your needs, she is the opposite side of the coin, you should interconnect and have strengths and weaknesses that strengthen one another.....being spiritual is one thing, walking upright is another. You pray and are spiritual one moment, and a sinner the next...all is confusion! how can you expect to make sense of it all when you have so many questions? knock....ask...seeek.....praaaay....hopefully your other half will fill up your inadequacies and you hers...we are all equal in our inabilities...share a little....
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How do you differentiate one woman from another?
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 03:08 PM

here is one with understanding...
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Scenario: your wife was just grilled by your atheist eldery parents, for being Christian. Your reaction?
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 03:06 PM

Smile dear, smile.....grit teeth, do not disrespect or head towards controversy, they are here for but a while, smile dear, but be firm in your convictions, in all humility, smile and stand on your foundations, not the strength of a husband or some personal perspective of what is right or good, conduct yourself with maturity, even if those that ought do not...smile dear smile...and perhaps hubby will drop just one parent honouring sentence that shows them it is not their house! don't kick against the goads...smile dear smile, humour is better than rage, it is more cutting in it's works....
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Guy Expressing His Love Within A Month.. Red Flag?
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 02:56 PM

if you want the guy to take the lead, that's ok, but a controlling spirit is a sure path to a life of hell....RUN!
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Some of the best chef's are men
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 02:53 PM

ps I hate chores and cooking...ask me to build something or design it or research it, then yes....I could make and fit out a rich mans house, but the kitchen? tis a place where strangeness goes on...right...I'm off to the shed and the safety of power tools...
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Some of the best chef's are men
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 02:50 PM

for the most part, we gain no enjoyment from the task, we appreciate it but it holds no passion in our hearts other than the consumption of it's product.



"Chef's" or "Good Cooks" use taste to sing a song, it is creativity, this is the 21st century, why can't women edit vids write the music and do all the post production work? in essence...you sing the song that gives you the most fulfillment and joy, everything else is a chore....to be avoided at all costs....
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Question to guys
Posted : 8 Jul, 2021 02:44 PM

you associate with one and confide in the other.
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