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A Long Term Relationship |
| Do you drink? |
Socially |
| Profession |
RN/WORK IN OFFICE NOW |
| Willing to relocate? |
Possibly, who knows |
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| Marital Status |
Divorced |
| Do you have children? |
Yes |
| Do you want children? |
Undecided/Open |
| Education Level |
4 Yr College Degree |
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| MY CHILDREN. Trout fishing/camping, suspense movies, phantom of the opera on Broadway; I'm an NFL football "fanatic" (when the Chiefs are doing well--that is), and that's because I'm from Kansas City. I listen to alternative christian music. |
| About Me |
Looking for a man who has a true spiritual relationship w/ Jesus. I'm honest, direct, straight-forward--I say what I mean and mean what I say. I am very laid-back, easy-going, and I am fiercely independent.
In people's standards, I've been told my whole life I'm "beautiful". But I pride myself on being beautiful on the INSIDE, now. And I didn't used to be. But God has a way of changing people from the inside, if they are willing. The best complement I've ever gotten in my life is being told I'm just as beautiful on the inside as I am on the outside, and also being told "you don't ACT like you're beautiful". I have long black hair, dark brown eyes, was called "black beauty" by a guy in college, hence my profile name.
I am looking for a Christian man who is self-confident, self-assured, & knows who he is in Christ---and strives to be that person every day. No insecure men w/ low self-esteem, please. And no alcoholics, please.
I left my ex-husband 8 yrs ago because he turned out to be a fake, a fraud, a phony--who pretended to be a Christian when we met. He turned out to NOT be, and I lost all love, respect and feeling for him. Have not been married since.
I have a BSN degree, but no longer work as a nurse. And have decided I can longer handle that stress (the abused children I saw is just one of the things that did me in. The other was a vicious custody battle in 2004). I've considered, some day, going back to school for a masters degree in social work, or child psychology. I have a sense of humor, and it's kind of warped after working in the ICU & the ER for so many years.
I'm NOT looking for a perfect man, because I am so imperfect. I have turned and ran from God at times in my life, but he has tailed me relentlessly, and always protected me. I'm simply looking for the guy who is 'perfect' for ME. And when I find him, I will know. I now know exactly what I want & need in a partner. He must be a man who feels a deep compassion in his heart for others, as I do. Today, I never pass a homeless person w/out stopping. I give them money--or food from my car, or I take them with me and buy them food--wherever they tell me they want to eat. And when I have no money to give them or food in my car, I've gone home to get them food out of my refrigerator and brought it back to them (I've occasionally brought them home with me, fed them, let them use my shower). I stop and give rides to every person I see walking in a blizzard here, or bad weather--regardless of their race, gender, age. I wasn't always this way, I used to be scared of homeless people and think there must be something wrong w/ them. But God has a sense of humor. Like I said, I don't want someone "perfect", as I am so imperfect.
If your goal in life-- is to one day hear the words--"Well done, good and faithful servant!" like mine is, and to represent Christ to this lost & dying world, you might just be the person that I'm waiting for God to send.
One last thing: God has put in my heart the desire to, one day, be able to take in foster children. And to be one of the foster homes in which they experience being loved, not being abused, and learn of Jesus' love for them. I'd rather do that than go back to school for a masters degree. It is the most direct, hands on way I can think of to help children in the foster care system, who feel lost and hurt. My parents took in foster children while I was growing up. And my dad has a foster brother and sister who came to live with them, and they never left. I don't know if my grandparents ever officially adopted them, but they kept them for good. (I'd be ECSTATIC to find a man on here who also had the same desire to foster children).
I now need to add: After meeting one of the guys on this site, and being CLEARLY deceived by his profile (as evidenced by the fact that he recently called me after "relapsing on meth"), I now need to add---NO drug addicts, PLEASE.
My FANTASY would be to sing/play an instrument in a Christian Rock band. |
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