Regarding me: I recently graduated with my doctorate degree--a goal I set out to accomplish nearly 14 years ago. I recently moved Omaha to continue my career as a college professor. I'm happy to have pursued this dream, but am most eager to pursue my other goal of having a family. I have learned a lot by being single and I wouldn't trade it for anything. I am truly happy with who I am and where I am in life, but am hopeful to find a partner with whom I can spend the rest of my life.
I am outgoing and energetic, thoughtful and compassionate, honest and direct. I definitely have a goofy side, but also think I'm pretty saavy. I am a strong Christian and would sacrifice my faith for nothing. I am always learning and never want to tire of having a teachable heart. Though I live far from my family, I have close relationships with both my parents. I absolutely adore all my neices and nephews! I love to go to new places and experience new things. I also really love running (though I'm not fast!) and use races for motivation and goal-setting. Lastly, I don't date just to date. I'm looking for the real deal here.
Regarding relationships: Relationships only survive when each member is willing to not only be aware of his/her personal issues, but also is willing to deal with them head on. Communication is imperative. There should be no secrets or hiding. Common interests and shared faith also create strong bonds. Postponing physical "needs" in order to develop true and lasting bonds is always better than visa versa.
Regarding my "match": He is a strong and dedicated Christian. He's educated, but also has good common sense. He is wise with his finances. He is a man of his word and is dependable. He is a good communicator and, though it may take some time, he is willing to be vulnerable. No topic is taboo for him. He is looking for a true and equal partner, not someone who is exactly like him, but brings him balance. He likes to challenge and be challenged. He likes a woman with some spunk and who speaks her mind. He has a good sense of humor and he exercises and takes good care of himself.
Lastly, in the interest of being truly upfront here, I'm not interested in someone with children. It's not that I don't like children or am even opposed to someone who is divorced. But honestly, I don't want to be a step-mother. Also, I would be purposely limiting the potential for upward growth in my career because that usually means a move out of town or the state (not a guarantee, but a possibility). I am morally opposed to a father moving away from his kids or kids being moved away from their mother and would rather not walk down that path at all at this point in my life.
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