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NotSettlingYet^ View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 13 Apr, 2022 09:09 AM On Monday I will attend a new church in my new hometown for the first time. I think there might be single men there, but in my age group many men are married already. Are there any signs I can look for to spot the single men? Post Reply
LittleDavid View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 29 Sep, 2022 09:42 AM Lots of advice‼️‼️ Hey, why don’t you take my advice, I’m not using it right now anyway‼️🤣😂 Post Reply
LittleDavid View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 29 Sep, 2022 10:21 AM OK, now I’m serious. Just be nice to EVERYONE. I try to be nice to as many people as possible. One of the side effects of being nice to people,—certain kinds of them will get the wrong impression. In my case, a lady thought I was coming on to her just by my saying “hi” to her, but another lady, who knew me, told her “he’s nice and says hi to everyone”. LOL Don’t be anxious about turning someone off at a first meeting. People who are forever turned off at a very first impression are SHALLOW folk—if they’re turned off the first time they meet you and stay that way, consider yourself rescued‼️ Pity them but be nice to them all the same—you might even pray for them accordingly‼️ Just be the person in progress the Lord made you to be! Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 30 Sep, 2022 11:42 AM Sorry NarnianGirl I don't believe you. But hey I'm just a man so what do I know. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 30 Sep, 2022 12:46 PM I have no problem contacting a Man first, if I have interest in him. I'm not afraid big rejection nigvhe says he's not interested! I don't have time to set snd Wait! Men have hundreds of Women photos to View! Many times they contact women who are not even interested in them ! I've dated online several times In person! I ask Men questions about many things Before meeting. Unrealistic expectations is common with many ! Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 30 Sep, 2022 12:48 PM Fyi Original poster profile gone for now. Post Reply

NarnianGirl View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 30 Sep, 2022 03:34 PM Sorry, Handyman, I don't understand.. what you don't believe? That men can misunderstand it if a woman shows any friendliness? Believe me, it happens a lot.. inside and outside of churches. It has happened to me.. (I even have seen Christian men complaining about women in their church trying to try their tricks on them.. they probably were greeted by a lady they did not fund appealing, and got scared.) Not afraid of rejection.. but it also isn't the most constructive way to use my time and resources, to try to shower attention to men who ignore me. Post Reply
NarnianGirl View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 30 Sep, 2022 03:36 PM LittleDavid, wise words.. Let's just treat our sisters and brothers with kindness and dignity. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 1 Oct, 2022 01:51 PM Narniangirl this is what I was referring to: "Handyman says he does not mind a woman show interest. Many other men have said the opposite.. they find it off-putting, if a female expresses any interest at all (real or perceived)" Very few if any men would find it off putting if a woman showed an interest in them. On the other hand lot of women find it "off putting" when a man they have no interest in shows an interest in them. Lets be honest here. Women make the decision on whether they would be willing to get to know a man or not. Women are far pickier about men then most men are about women. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 1 Oct, 2022 02:36 PM I agree most men wouldn't mind a woman showing interest in them first . That's been my experience! Post Reply
NarnianGirl View Profile History	Attending a new church for the first time. How to spot the single men? Posted : 1 Oct, 2022 02:46 PM That is good to hear, Moonlight. My experience is different. (Talking of 'real life' encounters, not talking w someone pn line) Post Reply