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dance2cedm
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Symphonic MetalPosted : 23 May, 2023 12:14 AMI have albums by Hb, Within Temptation, and Nigthwish, though I haven't listened to them since the '00s. They do have a majestic, intense sound.
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dance2cedm
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What are your favorite christian music artists and bands?Posted : 23 May, 2023 12:11 AMMiss Angie, Abigail Duhon, V. Rose, Andy Hunter, DJ Flubbel, DJ Jireh, Regenerator, Ameon, Reyer, The Echoing Green, Charmaine, Tal & Acacia....
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dance2cedm
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Single vs. Divorced / Widowed - a New PerspectivePosted : 22 May, 2023 10:39 PMWow, NarnianGirl, your story is heartbreaking. It doesn't make sense to me...as I read it, I have the same questions as you. I mean, I've heard of people being afraid to date never-marrieds ("what's wrong with them that they've never been married?"), but I've never heard of church people treating never-marrieds with such a contrasting difference from divorcees -- unless it was the other way around, where the divorcees are looked down upon.
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dance2cedm
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"Any Age"?Posted : 22 May, 2023 10:30 PMI have mine set to "Any Age" because I don't have any arbitrary limits. Chronological age doesn't necessarily correspond with how young or old they seem.
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dance2cedm
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Should the Church have single events?Posted : 16 Mar, 2022 02:48 AMIn the past churches often had singles groups for over 25 (under 25, they still do), but such groups vanished. From what I understand, many churches felt like it became like a meat market and wasn't serving the purposes of the church.
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dance2cedm
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Any NF, Demon Hunter, FFaK, or TFK fans ?Posted : 23 Jul, 2021 01:28 AMLast year, I bought NF's album "The Search." I liked it musically okay, but I couldn't relate to the lyrics. I have Demon Hunter's album "Summer Of Darkness," which I really like. I also have "The Triptych" but never got into that one. I definitely like Project 86 -- I have a number of their albums, my most recent being "Sheep Among Wolves." I have greatly liked every Project 86 album I have.
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dance2cedm
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Have you ever been ghosted, or has ghosted someone?Posted : 23 Sep, 2020 04:51 AMRegarding #2: Back in the '80s, I had been dating a girl for six weeks when she disappeared. We worked at the same place and she disappeared from her job, too. Once, I finally called her on the phone; she said she was eating with her family and would call me back, but she never did. A few months later I went to her house to return a book that I had borrowed while we were dating. She invited me in and we talked for awhile. I never asked why she left. I figured if she had wanted to tell me, she would have. I never saw her again.
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dance2cedm
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Can We Respect Women, Please? A New Look at the Church's View on LustPosted : 9 Aug, 2020 09:59 PMThis article mentions the book Every Man's Battle and the "bounce your eyes" concept. I read the book years ago and had a similar reaction as this author -- what a terrible mindset! As this author describes, such a mindset -- all too common in Modesty Culture -- sees women only as sexual objects. So much in Purity Culture is like this, where there are those who even say two married people unmarried to each other should never be in a car alone together, even to ride to work or church together. The underlying assumption of that is that all male/female interactions are inherently sexual, thus reducing others from full humans to sexual objects.
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dance2cedm
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The Truth About Modesty Culture, And How It Affects Men and WomenPosted : 9 Aug, 2020 09:40 PMCountryIvy, this is an EXCELLENT article and goes along with a passion of mine, to dismantle such harmful messages being promulgated in the church. Modesty Culture goes against the psychological concept of healthy boundaries in relationships: In a healthy relationship, you are not responsible for other people's feelings. Unhealthy boundary: "You made me angry!" Healthy boundary: "I feel angry by what you did!" Similarly, it is unhealthy to make women responsible for men's lust; men are responsible for controlling their own lust. This article gives excellent examples of how harmful it is to expect women to be responsible for someone else's lust.
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dance2cedm
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From the woman's sidePosted : 9 Aug, 2020 09:12 PMOthers here have already mentioned the ways you can let someone know of your interest -- wink, message, add to favorites. Everyone has their preferences and what each action means to them. Here are mine.
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