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Savedbygrace9

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Beware of wolves dressed in sheeps clothing.
Posted : 22 Mar, 2018 10:37 AM

Whats app with that?



go DC

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Finding and ending
Posted : 18 Mar, 2018 04:04 PM

Thanks for the interesting questions



Some women fall for this isolation technique they give their hearts and emotions to a man so many times they get blinded to the red flags and dangers of dating strangers



To avoid this women must give their hearts only to God who is the best matchmaker and best provider of wisdom and discernment

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best dating advice for 2018
Posted : 26 Dec, 2017 07:06 PM

let me pre-empt the nay-sayers--I AM NOT SINGLE, I ALREADY SUCCEEDED ON THIS SITE



im just here to observe some good potential mates for my many many single Christian friends and family

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best dating advice for 2018
Posted : 26 Dec, 2017 07:01 PM

even silver already left--congrats silver

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best dating advice for 2018
Posted : 26 Dec, 2017 07:00 PM

and pls message fast, for 2 things ive observed on this site:



-good people here don't stay single for very long





-and the ones that stay on this site who claim to have the best tips or dating advice---are still single on this site

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best dating advice for 2018
Posted : 26 Dec, 2017 06:55 PM

best dating advice#1 don't date



lol - i got more advice actually for those are humble and wise enough to listen--perhaps you've failed in dating or are thinking about dating, pls don't waste your time with that "dating game", your time is too precious



but i will not be checking this post (i don't have time to deal with the negative folks) instead, feel free to private inbox message me and i promise to reply to you asap



you can find my testimony here: https://www.christiandatingforfree.com/forum/forum_details.php?topic_id=22929&forum_sub_cat_id=11

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Posted : 26 Dec, 2017 06:41 PM

so my apologies for wasting your time---I will not get into a circular argument here-- "to each his own"



and I will not waste anymore precious time in this particular post, im not even getting paid for this---instead I will just share wisdom carefully with those wise enough to listen



and for the record, ive already been successful on this site, I was just hoping to vet some potential people for my many many Christian single friends



so if you have been reading this post and you are actually humble enough to listen to counsel, feel free to msg me



best wishes on 2018

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Posted : 26 Dec, 2017 06:27 PM

"best advice is to actively pursue (God first, then) prayer for a mate before all else"---agreed, that's why this post was created in the first place--to discourage "pursuing" because imo and tons of experience, pursuing is a time waster



heres the testimony: most of my adult life I never pursued women---why---because ive learned the game early on in high school (grew up pagan/street smarts) so most of my adult life, women pursued me--because I knew whats up early on



when I became a Christian, I sadly had to reject many Christian women who pursued me--it made me sad how many Christian singles nowadays seem so desperate



its sad that Christian singles spend so much money (and emotional baggage) on dating and pursuing that "right one" when the wiser thing to do is "TRUST IN GOD" and lots of prayer of course



there are also other social intelligent things that one can learn to become the person to be pursued (but im not gonna give that info for free.....anymore...lesson learned from this forum)



so it is very saddening to see even older adults in this site still using the same dating game tactics (that was common in high school) and to see those same older adults still single and remain on this site (it really is sad)



but that's what happens when people don't humble themselves to even "listen" to counsel

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Posted : 26 Dec, 2017 10:00 AM

not sure if Boaz pursued after Ruth, it seems more like Ruth pursuing after Boaz (maybe someone else can tackle that other statement)



again, this is free advice only for those wise enough to understand (if you are successful in your dating life, you probably wont even be reading this) but here are some more success stories from the Bible:



adam - did not pursue, God provided adam a wife



joseph - did not pursue women, and eventually, pharaoh provided joseph a wife

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Posted : 26 Dec, 2017 09:46 AM

"so if most Biblical characters never pursued anyone for marriage, why should you?"



notice the word "most" and not "all"



Jacob's case is a good topic (have you seen any commandment to follow his example in pursuing a wife?)

-also, its interesting that Jacob did not even vet (or at least look at ) the woman he was about to get intimate with, it woulda saved him a lot of trouble

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