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rbj66 View Profile	First date with CDFF member Posted : 22 May, 2024 02:28 PM That was kind of you to post
rbj66 View Profile	USA money and marriage Posted : 22 May, 2024 02:25 PM Handyman, how do you know if Moonlight was in love? To call her selfish is kind of rude. I should marry a anot because she is rich i spose. You may have a history with her here, bit cmon man, be cool. Especially with all this silly submission talk. This really means you like her and are afraid of her 😁
rbj66 View Profile	Do you seek a submissive woman for a monogamous marriage? Posted : 22 May, 2024 01:44 PM Some place too much emphasis on the submission and forget about "husbands love your wives". I believe in equality. We are a team. You scratch my back i scratch yours...so on. I have a whole different take on submission
rbj66 View Profile	Question for men Posted : 22 May, 2024 01:39 PM You must be missing more from that list. But seriously, not wanting someone who is divorced? I disagree with that
rbj66 View Profile	Trusting Posted : 19 May, 2024 02:33 PM Handyman, after reading it again, everyone screws up, not just women. LORD knows i have and still do. I wasn't walking with JESUS then and even with him i still follow my own heart and not His. That's human nature, not gender based

rbj66 View Profile	Trusting Posted : 19 May, 2024 02:30 PM Imagine that, he divorced not long after. 🙄
rbj66 View Profile	A Non Rant Dating Advice For Men Posted : 19 May, 2024 10:38 AM Careful how much you "talk them up". They may never come down 😉
rbj66 View Profile	Trusting Posted : 19 May, 2024 10:35 AM I see what you mean about a flag, but everyone makes a poor decision. It's what we do after
rbj66 View Profile	Trusting Posted : 19 May, 2024 05:59 AM Trust issues i'm sure many have them and it has been posted somewhere. My ex absolutely refused to trust me because of her cheating dad and her mom's brainwashing. After years of unfounded (delusional even) accusations and arguments, i gave her what she wanted in a roundabout way as i was not walking with the LORD then. Not sexually, but i made it look that way as i knew it would hurt her. She wanted to be verbally abusive, i begged her to stop and get help because i didn't want to play head games. Nope. Bark bark bark. So i hurt her back in a way that i knew she couldn't forgive. She did at first but that's another story. I can imagine a couple of answers here to this 🙄, but ladies, how much nagging is too much? Can you admit if you did it? And men, how much do we acquiesce until we've said enough already? Am i to stay on the phone with her 24/7 to ease her mind? Of course not. We can only do so much. When the trust is gone so is the love. There is a whole lot more to this psychologically. It's okay to be a little jealous and we should be, but extremes need therapy. I refuse to continue to try to make someone happy who doesn't want to be. She was conceited, demanding, immature and insecure. Now i am not wholly in agreement with how a few believe women should submit 😬🤐, but it does come into play here. She does not rule the roost, we are a team. Controlling your husband can be weaponizing marriage, and it is explicitly warned against. It can go for the man too of course. "Husbands love your wives" ( only one of course 😉). I tried for 14 years. Who wants to love anyone who has to be heard (screaming like a little brat) but never listens? I stayed for a long time (too long) trying to be a good father figure to her son and a good husband but just was never good enough for her. Finally it came to a head. Where you at? Had this experience?
rbj66 View Profile	Mean people Posted : 13 May, 2024 08:48 PM Seems a lot of if not most mean people have had rough childhoods and have not been able to forgive and/or move on.