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rbj66 View Profile	“All Roads Lead to Obama. Retruth If You Want Public Military Tribunals.” Posted : 20 May, 2025 06:48 AM Too many ostriches with their heads in the sand. Always trust the government!
rbj66 View Profile	Clueless about his feelings Posted : 20 May, 2025 06:27 AM Girl, do you have feelings for him? How long will you wait for love? Ask him if he is a Christian man. If he isn't, fair enough. If he is, take initiative. Don't regret not trying. He could be him. Or not. At least you won't wonder about it if you find it hard to find love.
rbj66 View Profile	Romantic Love is very important in a Marriage Relationship or Boyfriend exclusive Relationship Posted : 20 May, 2025 06:22 AM I aim to never let romance die. Maybe as one post said most women aren't romantic is because men are the same way. Maybe the women are supposed to be romanced and not the men. If GOD created woman for man, then man has a Godly responsibility to her. He said it is (mostly) good 😁. As for Solomon, i think he summed up the concubines when he said "all is vanity" and struggled with true love. One man, one woman...
rbj66 View Profile	what's the point of having a singles group if women aren't internet in men anymore? Posted : 20 May, 2025 06:10 AM Well there's positivity for ya 🙄. I was going to ask of they are getting fed the Word, but it seems you should not even be hosting with that attitude. People are less into relationships today for sure but jeez, i agree you need to step back.
rbj66 View Profile	Agreeable or a healthy challenge – what works for you? Posted : 20 May, 2025 05:57 AM I just watched a short video of a woman who dated an athlete. She said she challenged him because she thought that is what he would want. His reply was "why would i want to be challenged?" That kind of clears some of it up. I can tell you when i worked a 14 hour day i did not neeo come home to a challenging atmosphere. Men need a little TLC just as the lady does, though some may be too macho to admit

rbj66 View Profile	CHRISTIAN NEWS REPORTS: 70% of Women Who Get Abortions Identify as Christians, Survey Finds Posted : 20 May, 2025 05:49 AM There was a time we identified as 80% Christian but when you see a report like this i would guess that number should be flipped to 20%.
rbj66 View Profile	Are dating and relationships supposed to be this difficult Posted : 20 May, 2025 05:46 AM Heu Sparkly, i just kind of posted on this a bit under "ask a woman". I can totally relate. It is amazing how there are so many single people and some seem very kind but just missing that little something. I was told by an older man i work with you can't be picky! 😄🤦‍♂️. Yeah, okay. So let's just date to get divorced. Of course he isn't Christian nor is he much of a philosopher of love obviously. So are we too picky or should we settle? What are we settling for if we do? If you still pop in here feel free to hit me up. We can chat here or in private with the other side about this. Constructive talk is productive talk and maybe we can both benefit.
rbj66 View Profile	Ignoring your spouse Posted : 20 May, 2025 05:31 AM Ladies, one of my peeves i guess and criteria is i hate to be ignored. I came out of a realtionship where my ex was pretty arrogant. As time went on she would get mad i never tell her stuff and say i never listen (in such a loving tone of course 😁) but that is to be expected if she was the same way. Now even on here i have had lengthy conversations where i had posed questions or looked for comments and they just started talking about something else so it seemed they just didn't read it or ignored what i wrote. And i mean heartfelt questions and comments. Is that a sign of arrogance? I just can't justify it anymore. Do you find this a common trait with men? Communication is so important. No way i can be in a realtionship where my wife only talks when she thinks it's important. We had so little dialogue and usually it is the woman that talks more. There were stretches of days when she wouldn't even talk to me. She talked when she wanted to and made sure she was heard 😬. I had a marriage where i was looking forward to coming home to her to where i didn't want to come home at all. My fault of course 🙄
rbj66 View Profile	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 18 May, 2025 05:38 PM I really am looking for women's opinions here or i would post under "ssk a man" or maybe "ask a woman who identifies as a man" or maybe "ask a man who identifies as a woman" 🤔
rbj66 View Profile	Should the man reach out first? Posted : 14 May, 2025 06:34 AM Moonlight, are you dating someone?