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Lukia^

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If a guy became interested in you only because...
Posted : 8 Oct, 2014 04:30 AM

Bro,I don't see anything wrong with what you said.And those are the things you can say to a person when you meet coz you don't know much about them.

To me that would have been a nice thing.

Maybe she had her other problems.

And something else,this is not 'All Women'...it was that particular woman.So if you get another don't hesitate to tell her she is pretty.

Lukia^

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Searching for love
Posted : 1 Sep, 2014 06:07 AM

Bluesky,

Don't generalise things here.Not everyone who is from Africa is a scammer.

Demons and angels are every where.You get angels in Africa as well as US,UK or any other place.The same with demons.

Lukia^

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Would you date suicidal guys?
Posted : 29 Aug, 2014 02:45 AM

I will agree with curiousGeorge and DKJ.

You don't have to date someone to help them.

Help them first then date them coz if you date first it may not work then it will be so devastating for the person.It will even escalate his problem.

Doctors date their patients regardless of the sickness,but they treat them first then start their advances.

I don't see why anyone would date someone who he/she knows very well is suicidal without first helping them get out of the situation.

Being suicidal can be triggered by very little issues,and relationships are not usually very smooth.We are only human,we get annoyed,we react in different ways,and these people can be affected in very bad ways.

After he gets help,date him,even marry him.

Thats my take on this.

Lukia^

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Sisters, what would you do.....hypothecially?
Posted : 29 Aug, 2014 02:22 AM

One thing we can be sure of is,even if you dated for ten years,you can never know each other well until you live together.

Real relationship life is experienced in living together.

There are those who date for three months,marry and live happily.

There are those who date five or so years,and when they live together don't stay together for long.

So I would advice ladies as much as its good to take your time,don't judge him by how fast he is asking for marriage.

I hope this makes sence.

Lukia^

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Searching for love
Posted : 29 Aug, 2014 01:37 AM

Such a bad and good experience at the same time coz it made you learn.These things happen.

I can assure you even if you asked those questions,he would have answers(fake).

Just as my sister says the longer you stay the better.It eventually comes out.

Scammers are all over but I believe God in His own way will make one meet with a genuine one.

Even in the midst of the storm,someone real will come out.

Trust in our good Lord.

My best wishes to you my sister.

Lukia^

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Travel and Red Tape
Posted : 27 Aug, 2014 02:14 AM

Lovinglady,

I'm so sorry about your experience.Long distancerelationships are not easy especially between far countries.

Thanks for sharing too

This is quite sad but trust in God,He has good plans for you,and only Him who knows your destiny.

My best wishes to you dear.

Lukia^

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A Bad Experience
Posted : 18 Aug, 2014 02:14 AM

Maturity is very important.

Lukia^

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Sisters, what would you do.....hypothecially?
Posted : 12 Aug, 2014 07:00 AM

I think it will depend on where I am.

If I have other things also that I want to accomplish,I wouldn't mind waiting for the first guy.Though i feel 3 years committing to someone you haven't met one on one is too much.

If am ready to move on I will go for the second who is ready to settle.

Lukia^

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dating divorced woman
Posted : 12 Aug, 2014 06:51 AM

Jesus Christ gave "infidelity" as avaried reason for divorce.

Lukia^

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Selfies...
Posted : 11 Aug, 2014 12:51 AM

I agree with you Hidden.

Its disgusting.

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