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Lukia^ View Profile	How will you know that he is the one who really meant for you? Posted : 13 Jun, 2013 07:23 AM As you have been told by the others,its normal to experience pain as you go on in life but the bottom line is how you deal with it,with forgiveness and love. Its very good that you have kept yourself pure. Remember we live with human beings who are very different from us even our sisters and brothers are very different from us and sometimes they hurt us.The same applies to partners/husbands.When they hurt us we are supposed to deal with it with love and have forgiveness in us. And as sand said be open to guys,talk to them,but don't give your purity to anyone who doesn't respect.And by respect i mean one who isn't ready to wait till you are married. My best wishes to you girl,may God give you the desire of your heart.
Lukia^ View Profile	loneliness the hardest thing on earth Posted : 13 Jun, 2013 07:06 AM This is good,wait upon the Lord and He is faithful.His timing is the best.Sometimes its not easy waiting, a year goes another one comes and goes, but when our God fulfills His promises we forget the many years we have cried coz He will give us the best. May God's abbundant grace be upon everyone who is waiting on Him.
Lukia^ View Profile	Is our indipendancy affecting our relationships' negatively? Posted : 11 Jun, 2013 01:04 AM This a good question.Our independency is affecting our relationships negatively. With all empowerment on us(women) we have forgotten the place of a woman.Sarah in the bible used to call her husband 'my lord' thats shows submission,respect,recognition...but i think that has been wiped away from us by,money,education and power.So we are not able to submit to our husbands,partners or even boyfriends. A wise woman,a woman of God should know what the bible says about women and their husbands.Submit to him,respect and recognize him.Whether he recognizes it or not if you are a prayerful woman he will with time.And whether we have money or not lets respect our partners knowing well that the money,education and power that we have can never buy happiness,neither can it buy a man. Ladies lets pray and ask God to help us go back to where He wants us to be.And lets build our families with love,respect and submissive hearts and our men will be able to love us in the way that God wants them to.
Lukia^ View Profile	LOVE? Posted : 11 Jun, 2013 12:29 AM "women don't really have love in our nature"?????? I don't think i agree with that sisygirl.We don't just follow men we fall in love too.Women fall in love with men sometimes even before a man realises it. So to me,this doesn't apply to women maybe to individuals.
Lukia^ View Profile	Please.. explain it to me like a 6 year old.. Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 11:58 PM Both men and women have negative experiences.Women too have negative experiences with men in these sites and thats why sometimes some don't respond to advances from men coz we cannot tell who is true or not.Some experiences are really bad with some men even insulting us(women) for no reason at all. I think both men and women just need to have an open mind and be positive unless something comes out negatively. And when it comes don't take it that all women are like that,they are not the same.Some of us are good even when we make mistakes we do coz we are only human.And i believe the same with men.The fact that some are brutal,inconsiderate doesn't mean all are like that.There are good men of God. Please guys don't judge us like that.

Lukia^ View Profile	What does she do for living? Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 11:44 PM This is a good question sisygirl.I would also like to hear what the guys will say,but i will also say something. I always imagine the guys ask not because they are after her money or whatever she has but coz they want to know what kind of a woman she is,whether she is responsible or not.I don't think any man will want a woman who just sits in the house.He may not want what she has but wants a woman he can relate with on all matters and considering that financial matters are usually very sensitive in relationships its only good to know. I'm sorry this question is for guys but just decided to put something in.I will wait to hear what the guys say.
Lukia^ View Profile	am new on here and i dont know wat am doing wrong Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 11:20 PM Welcome Georgia,its a wonderful site.There are many good and true guys(though there are also bad ones).Pray that God may guide you.Believe in yourself that you are wonderfully and fearfully made. My best wishes to you in your search.
Lukia^ View Profile	live chat room Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 05:25 AM I also wonder the same coz every time i go there almost everyone is in their 20s or 30s.Sometimes i don't even know what to say.
Lukia^ View Profile	Mr Perfect/ Ms Perfect does not exist....... Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 05:22 AM Well said,i hope many here read this.
Lukia^ View Profile	Someone Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 05:17 AM Sorry,if he deleted without telling you then he doesn't care just move on.If he was deleted by cdff just don't bother looking for him. If he cares he will look for you. There are many good people here,you meet another one.