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Lukia^

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Are you in that phrase yet?
Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 03:29 AM

This to wild erness...i like the way you have responded and advised the lady on the original post.I'm surprised to learn that this happens all over the world i thought it only happens in Africa.

Don't allow yourselves to be desperate.

You are important people with or without husbands and when the time comes for you to desire marriage then God will provide a good husband.

Lukia^

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need to forgive
Posted : 10 Jun, 2013 02:45 AM

We forgive because thats what God requires of us.The bible says we have to forgive in order for us to be forgiven.Sometimes it can be hard but we pray for God to help us be able to forgive.You have to start by repentance,repent, without considering the other person as the bad one coz he/she has wronged you,then pray to God to help you forgive.You also pray God to take away the pain from your heart.

May God's grace be with you as you seek God on forgiveness.

Lukia^

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Have loved and been hurt
Posted : 6 Jun, 2013 10:48 PM

Our God is a faithful God and a God of a second chance.Its good that you realised your mistake and now you know the way.Once you know your mistakes and turn back to God, repent and ask for His guidance,He will show you the way.And He will guide you to the right person in His will.

God bless you sister and have courage in the Lord.

Remember the prodigal son.

God embraces us with love when we turn back to Him.

Lukia^

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Whats the right age to have a baby??
Posted : 4 Jun, 2013 10:13 PM

This is really an interesting topic.Sometimes it varies with different cultures but for me i would like to say the right age to have a baby is in the age that one is married.If a girl is married at 20 its ok for her to have a baby,and for a woman who didn't get a chance to get married early,and she gets a partner at 40,and she would love to have a kid,let her go on.

You may want to have kids but you aren't lucky to get a partner while you are young,and being a christian you don't want to engage in fornication.The time you get your partner you are 35 or older,consult your doctor and if you are assured that you are fine,go ahead.

I don't think there is an age that is right or wrong coz it all depends on the situation you are or have been in.

I hope it makes sense.

Lukia^

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Separated people?
Posted : 4 Jun, 2013 04:24 AM

We need advice,we need encouragement.

For some these sites are the best social places to get encouragement.We also need love whether separated or divorced.

Love doesn't only mean intimacy between man and woman,we get love from women and men,different type of love to give us strength to go on.Everyone needs this so i think its ok for separated people to be in these social places.

I have learnt alot by interacting with both men and women here,not because am dating them,no no no.Because we show each other God's love which is not partial.

Separation is a very hard and trying time for anyone,lets love and encourage all.

Lukia^

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G'day from Downunder
Posted : 4 Jun, 2013 01:16 AM

Welcome brother.

God knows our short comings and weaknesses and He has good plans for us all.Being deaf cannot prevent a woman from loving you.

God will bring along one who loves you for who you are.

My best wishes to you.

Lukia^

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attending church
Posted : 3 Jun, 2013 01:55 AM

As much as its important to be in fellowship with other believers we are not supposed to judge others by the way they attend church.The first church is our hearts.What is your relationship with your God?Whether you are in church or not?You can stay at home for good reasons,but how is your heart?You can go to church as a routine,are you benefiting from your attendance?Or do you just attend for the sake?What is your motive?God looks at our hearts.

One cannot be a lesser christian just coz he/she doesn't attend church.

But its good,if you have a church you can attend and be blessed when you sing and dance for the Lord with others and when you hear the word of God.

God bless you fellow christians.

Lukia^

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dealing with feeling played! help!!
Posted : 3 Jun, 2013 01:17 AM

Give her a break and wait for her to come to you since you have tried all you can.If she doesn't,don't force it on her.When you are in that break,pray about it if its the will of God you will get together but if its not you accept the outcome.

I'm sorry for all this.

All the praise and honor be to our Lord who knows us,and knows what is good for us more than anyone else.

My best wishes to you.

Lukia^

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disabled and dating
Posted : 30 May, 2013 10:02 PM

I agree with dkj,its good to have a photo of yourself on your profile.let gals see who they are talking to.

My best wishes to you.

Lukia^

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Hi fellow Christians..
Posted : 23 May, 2013 04:05 AM

You are welcome dear.

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