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Lukia^ View Profile	Is It Good for Man to be Alone? Posted : 19 Mar, 2013 12:07 AM It is not good for a man to be alone. Genesis 2:18 -And the Lord God said,"it is not good that man should be alone,I will make him a helper comparable to him". So God did not intend the man to be alone,thats why we should seek God's guidance in our relationships.And where we didn't follow Him initially for luck of faith,we should repent and ask for His guidance now that we know what we need to do.
Lukia^ View Profile	A question of who is Love-worthy Posted : 18 Mar, 2013 11:58 PM Bravo lesthimind I like the way you make your contributions here,you make me have a deeper understanding of different issues. I hope the ones you answer to benefit from you.
Lukia^ View Profile	oh I got a question :P Posted : 18 Mar, 2013 11:52 PM I agree with Michael,it is Godly to have children. And it was God's desire for His creation to fill the earth. And to bring up children in love and fear of God is the most fulfilling thing in a relationship. It is right for men and women to want children. However,there are those who feel they wouldn't want to have children and we cannot judge them.
Lukia^ View Profile	When do you invite Posted : 12 Mar, 2013 11:42 PM Its good to take your time.Don't be in a hurry,as you continue meeting outside your home you will learn the person and be able to make up your mind whether he/she is the person you want in your life.This is online dating lets all be careful.
Lukia^ View Profile	Age Posted : 12 Mar, 2013 11:30 PM Just go by what you prefer and not what other people prefer. I think everyone goes by what makes them comfortable.If a man knows he cannot be comfortable with a woman his age,why should he go for one? I would advice you to be the same,just pass by those who have put age preference which doesn't fit you. There are so many guys who are interested in women who are over 45 go for them and don't even waste your time thinking about the rest.

Lukia^ View Profile	He/She should love God more than he loves you Posted : 11 Mar, 2013 06:30 AM Pray girl.its good you feel that way but remember in this life you expect challenges and they can come in any way. Tell me if you married a man and he backslides what will you do? Won't you take time to pray for your husband? I'm not in any way suggesting that you go for anything less than what you believe,but pray my girl.
Lukia^ View Profile	Should we kiss ???? Posted : 11 Mar, 2013 05:38 AM Yes Michael,i agree with you.You lead we follow,so let your leadership be Godly,don't lead your woman to sin. Thanks for the advice i hope it helps many.
Lukia^ View Profile	1 Cor 7:10,11 Posted : 11 Mar, 2013 05:30 AM Many of us have fallen short of the glory of God.We just need to repent and ask God's guidance. In the first place most of us never waited for or asked for God's guidance in our past relationships.We guided ourselves,relied on our own wisdom and got involved,hence the relationships don't work. But now that we know Jesus,we are supposed to look upon Him and be guided by the Holy Spirit. Maybe the persons we married initially were not God's choices for us and that's why the relationships didn't work.And i believe even if you try going back, it won't work.So seek God's guidance with the whole of your heart about the future.If its God's will you go back,do exactly that and build the relationship from there in God's will. If we allow the Holy Spirit to teach us God's word,we will understand it and will not look at the government,society or the church.The man will treat his woman according to God's will and the woman too to do as God requires,then we won't hear of divorce,separation or couples fighting.
Lukia^ View Profile	Bad "Christian" dating experiences... Posted : 11 Mar, 2013 01:45 AM I am so sorry about this. I wish men and women could be sincere in whatever they do. It must have been traumatizing but take heart and believe that God has a special person for you.May be thats why guys are not interested in us who are so far from them. I have a friend who also went to meet a guy in US and he never turned at the airport as agreed.She tried to call him but in vain and after two days she had to come back.Online dating is not easy but we just have to keep hoping for the best,trusting in God and praying. Thank you so much for sharing this. My best wishes to you as you continue searching.
Lukia^ View Profile	Why hide? Posted : 1 Mar, 2013 05:01 AM Sure! I like your answer lethismind2. People have different reasons for doing things and its not every time another person understands.