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Lukia^ View Profile	What to do if...... Posted : 26 Feb, 2013 11:23 PM Sorry about whatever happened to you. I think its good to be open and sincere right from the beginning. Let any past that you feel might affect a relationship be known to the other person,coz i believe 'the earlier the better'.If a guy will not go on with you coz of what you cannot change ,then its good he leaves before you start committing yourself to him,or even falling in love.Let him know you cannot have kids,if he continues to love you then you will know that he is for real. Even about other things don't wait until your partner discovers,let him know.
Lukia^ View Profile	Finding someone on cdff seems hard. Posted : 25 Feb, 2013 01:44 AM I agree with you girl.Most guys don't even reply to messages yet they urge members on their profiles to contact them. Even most of the guys turn out to be scammers,you realise that after chatting for some time. All the same i believe just like i am true and honest,there are guys who are true too. We just need to take time.
Lukia^ View Profile	Sometimes one wonders Posted : 7 Feb, 2013 12:30 AM I'm sorry that you haven't been successful in finding the woman for you. God knows us best,He knows what is best for you. Just hang on there and don't give up. The right one will soon come your way.You may not even be the one to look for her,she will come to you. Just trust in God and know that there is no dustbin for prayers.Every prayer that we pray counts in the eyes of God,and He will answer. Keep praying about it.I also have not been successful,i get the same response whenever i try,but i believe the one for me will eventually come.The one that God has for me will not be able to resist me. God bless you and may you have strength in Christ Jesus.
Lukia^ View Profile	Hes my Prince have YOU seen him?? Posted : 5 Feb, 2013 01:22 AM I'm so sorry about this my dear.I understand how devastating this can be but take heart pray for him and for yourself too to have peace.If he was meant for you he will resurface.And even if he doesn't,may God give you strength to go on.I know its not easy but life has to go on.I will tell you about a friend...she met a nice guy and they dated for quite some time and they agreed that she should go to visit him in the US.She prepared herself and she was so excited,dating for over a year and now the time had come for her to meet the love of her life.She too the flight and when she arrived,the guy wasn't there.And since she had known him so well there was nothing to worry about.But after trying his number with no one answering she started panicking.She tried all she could without success,she wrote emails,sms throught the phone and nothing happened till she had to come back.It was more devastating than you can imagine.With all the preparations and everyone knowing she was going abroad to meet her lover...it was too much.Now she can never trust anyone on these dating sites.So up to now she has never known what went wrong,whether the guy is still alive or not.I don't know how you will take this but if the guy is still here and he doesn't want to talk to you,don't bother following him...it shows the relationship didn't matter much to him,it only did to you. I'm sorry.Remember God has the best plans for you and He will never forsake you.
Lukia^ View Profile	how do i know the right man4 me and kids..... Posted : 23 Jan, 2013 02:54 AM When you become a parent your interests change.Its good to take time and focus on your kids for now without any man in your life then with time you can be able to make quality decisions. When we are desperate,anyone passes by coz that time you feel you can't stand on your own.But you can.Pray alot for God to give you inner strength,to be able to believe in yourself,and stand for your kids. You are still very young but with God's help you will make it and make it well. I'm a single mother of two and when i divorced i choose not to date till my kids grew up coz i was afraid someone might come in my life and make my kids suffer,then my live would be more complicated. Its now almost 18 years without dating at all,but now that they are grown i decided to try online dating. Give yourself time the right man will come your way if you put all your trust in God.But let priority be on your kids.

Lukia^ View Profile	Advice for everyone that people should consider Posted : 21 Jan, 2013 02:34 AM Thank you so much for this...very encouraging. I was about to give up coz i feel i have been waiting for too long and no one is coming along.Since i joined this site i haven't met someone serious,the ones i have met they write only to find they have been banned the next day.I send winks,messages but i think no one thinks i'm good enough,for reasons that i don't know. I had started thinking i'm not good enough but now i feel encouraged and revived. Thank you God bless you.
Lukia^ View Profile	new to dating Posted : 21 Jan, 2013 02:23 AM You don't have to worry,here you don't use a language that will surprise your kids.Be a good christian in whatever you say.I also imagine that your kids know that you are single. I also have kids who are growup now but i believe they ought to understand,and i don't mind as long as its not a crazy thing i'm doing. Also mind what information you give here.
Lukia^ View Profile	women with adult kids Posted : 21 Jan, 2013 02:05 AM I'm delighted to read such a message from you.I agree with you from my own experience most single mothers don't know anything else apart from looking after their kids.I have been a single mum for the last 17 years,my daughter is now 25 and son 19.I have not been dating for all the 17 years until i decided to try it here. Sometimes we talk about me having a relationship,what would happen?,how would they take it?,would they be ready to accept another person in my life and give us space?I allow this discussion to make them aware that i have another life apart from protecting them.I believe with understanding from both partners a good relationship can be achieved.When we bring up our kids alone,mother or father, we are very protective of them,so the man/woman coming into this life has to love the kids,and have some understanding when they need the parent.We go through it together. When they need the mother/father you talk,discuss it,give advice,allow yourself to be involved.Remember if the kids are not getting on well you cannot find happiness with each other,remember too that all the kids have is the mother or father,help each other if any issues come up.You will always love each other and you will be each other's priority because you involve each other.
Lukia^ View Profile	Agony of a young girl Posted : 18 Jan, 2013 01:50 AM Sorry to hear this my dear. But i'm happy you are able to get out of it. God has good plans for you,trust in Him,he will provide a good loving man who will care for and love you. As for your parents thank God for them and pray that you may forgive them wholly. Don't carry any hard feelings about them into your future,always pray for them. Most people here have had painful pasts but we have to go on. Now that we know Christ lets hold unto Him and ask for His peace that surpasses human understanding. I wish you all the best my girl.
Lukia^ View Profile	My story............ Posted : 16 Jan, 2013 04:05 AM This is a story that can move anyone to tears.But one thing i love about it is that the person in it is already past it.It is usually fullfilling when we can be able to talk about a painful past without any pain at all.Because God has delivered us from the past. I'm so inspired by this...Thank you so much for your story BUT GOD.........