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Lukia^ View Profile	My Brother's death Posted : 15 Jan, 2013 04:04 AM I'm so sorry about your brother,death is too final and hard to accept but by the grace of God you get on. May our Lord God the father of all comfort and Lord of all consolation comfort and console you in all ways. May His grace keep you always.
Lukia^ View Profile	What to do if wife wants marriage to end Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 05:25 AM Sorry about this.When one is in it it feels like its the worst thing that can happen to anyone.What i can say to you is God works in good and bad for those who love him. I went through the same though mine was worse coz it involved infidelity.I tried to hang on and tried all i could to keep the relationship but it failed.At last i had to leave.It hurt so much that time and it wasn't easy at all to move on.It took many years to get over it,but now when i look back i don't regret at all for what happened. I understand why you want to hang onto your wife,its only human.But sometimes we have to let go.Start to examine yourself now and tell God to give you guidance on which route to follow from there.As much as you don't want divorce,you will not be able to force your wife to stay,she has already made her decision. Believe that God has the best plans for you.Take heart. My advice...don't get into any relationship for now,allow yourself to heal and focus on the future.Whatever happens care about your kids they need you.
Lukia^ View Profile	Knowing deep in your "knower" Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 04:45 AM I think most of us are in this situation.We keep asking questions in our hearts that most of the time have no answers until we get into relationships and know how to deal with it. But i believe time will always tell you more about your partner and you too.And even as we take time put it in prayer,ask for God's guidance,pray earnestly and God is faithful,he will reveal to you what you ask and the fears in your heart. Online dating especially for long distance,is not easy.One has to really trust in God to make the right decision and choice.
Lukia^ View Profile	LOVE: The greatest of All Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 04:30 AM Yes love is the greatest of all. Love is the best thing that can happen to anyone. Love makes one feel fulfilled. It is the sweetest thing in life, yet it hurts the most. I have been hurt by someone i loved deeply and i know too well how it feels.But i haven't given up,i believe i can fall in love again.It took many years to get off it but i'm through and ready since i know i can't live without love. I have lots of love in my heart to give and i pray that i get the same. I'm very optimistic.
Lukia^ View Profile	For me, it never worked without Christ. Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 04:08 AM I believe if you are a christian you should go for a christain.that doesn't mean there won't be challenges in life but you can solve your differences based on christian values coz you both know them. No one is perfect even christians but go for one who knows Jesus and he(Jesus) will help you as you get along. Have one stand in life.Not one leg in christianity the other one else where,it will never work.

Lukia^ View Profile	Christian man's view on drinking? Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 03:47 AM Yes i believe its right to put it that way coz there are those who can't put up with drinkers or smokers.It gives the site users a choice.For those who don't mind its ok. If one doesn't like to be in a relationship with one who drinks its good not to start it in the first place,or to leave once you realise he/she drinks.It will always be a problem coz you sincerely don't like it. Let no one compromise on these issues.Remember a long term relationship or marriage is something you will live with probably for the rest of your life and you want to be happy with your partner.
Lukia^ View Profile	why? Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 03:37 AM Some people are only christians by the word of mouth not in their hearts. I think the fear of God is what can make someone true and honest in all that they do or say. Especially in these dating sites many people tell alot of lies and its wrong coz this is a dating site based on pure christianity and we should respect that.
Lukia^ View Profile	Better to be single then to be killed Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 03:28 AM I'm so sorry about this bro.Its wrong for any one to tell you that you don't know how to pic girls.These things happen and you should thank God that you found out early enough coz she was not worthy of your love.Don't be in a hurry to get another one,just take your time and pray about it.I'm sure there is a good lady to make you happy.And even when you look,don't go for anything less than what you want in life don't compromise too much.I say this coz you said she was abit too rough.Be careful my brother and don't be in a hurry. Don't give up,God has good plans for your future.
Lukia^ View Profile	Are You Some Man's Toilet? Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 02:31 AM This is wonderful...thanks for sharing this with sisters. Ladies its the high time we treated ourselves with pride and self worth.We are more than men's toilets. But i'm afraid only after some time in life or after some experiences is when you realise that you are worth more than just being taken to bed. Its good to keep yourself pure until the one who is interested "really interested" can marry you.Sex doesn't change a man's feelings toward you. Be pure girls and love yourselves.
Lukia^ View Profile	Marry me? Posted : 11 Jan, 2013 02:15 AM I love these comments on the issue "marry me".No one marries a lady or guy without knowing them well regardless of how or where you meet.Don't make marriage decision based on physical looks though its a plus having someone physically attractive and smart in the inside. As christians lets learn to pray for God's guidance though some times its not easy.