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Lukia^ View Profile	Two tips for newcomers... Posted : 27 Feb, 2014 05:33 AM Good advice brother... :applause::applause:
Lukia^ View Profile	This post is a little more expressive... Posted : 25 Feb, 2014 05:57 AM Sisygirl dear, You set my mind on a race for ideas every time you post here. Friends are free with each other... Friends are honest with each other... Friends are open to each other... Friends care about each other... For any relationship to prosper there must be friendship.Even in marriage,if husband and wife are friends the relationship is easy and healthy.The two can be able to deal with any obstacles that come on their way.They can tell each other anything,and they can share even the deepest fears in their hearts. If husband and wife are friends, they pour their hearts to each other but if there is no friendship,there are reservations. As one of the ladies said,thats why people here ask for friendship first. If the friendship moves to next level and still the aspect of friendship doesn't go away(which happens in most relationships but doesn't have to),the relationship is marvelous.
Lukia^ View Profile	Spammers, SCAMMERS and more cheaters... Posted : 18 Feb, 2014 02:57 AM Thank you for sharing. God bless you.
Lukia^ View Profile	Missing you... Posted : 18 Feb, 2014 02:45 AM Wawawawawawawawawaw..... This is beautiful. Is it meant for a particular person!!!! I hope she reads.
Lukia^ View Profile	If You are a liar, it doesnt mean you are smarter Posted : 18 Feb, 2014 02:31 AM LunaDiya, Thanks for sharing this. When you see things moving too fast just be careful. Let no one lie to you that he can propose even before you meet physically.Very few guys will promise to come to your country until they are very sure. Most of these guys who move like that are scammers and they come in all colours.May God guide you in your search. Always when you meet someone pray about it and God will give you discernment.You will be able to discern whether he is true or not. Don't allow your mind or heart to rush either in deed or thoughts. Most of all don't give up,believe that your creator has very good plans for your future. Plans of GOOD and not EVIL. God bless you sister.

Lukia^ View Profile	Views of those who are seeking commitment here..? Posted : 18 Feb, 2014 02:00 AM Sisygirl, This is a wonderful post. Commitment is to be ready for the other with his/her flaws.Once we realize that we all have flaws(all human beings),we can be able to appreciate others without capitalizing on their flaws.I believe every person has their good side so learn to focus on the good and always pray for insight to be to deal with the other side with love. Forgiveness is very crucial in a relationship.And no human being can be able to satisfy the other wholly.So appreciate the part that she/he satisfies and you will be able to deal with the other with all understanding and love. Appreciate the other both in word and deed.
Lukia^ View Profile	How do I start wanting relationships? Posted : 11 Feb, 2014 02:23 AM Thanks sister for sharing this. Its a good thing that you know yourself and I believe by sharing you are ready to get out of your old self. It doesn't matter where we have come from,once Christ finds us He changes our course in life. What matters is whether we are willing to change(be changed by Christ). It doesn't happen in a day,its a process and it takes the inner will. God bless you sister.
Lukia^ View Profile	...without reflecting frustration, only raising your concern Posted : 11 Feb, 2014 02:06 AM Hello sisygirl, These situations can be quite tricky even to those who are born again. Put the financial issue before the Lord for guidance. Sometimes if you find he doesn't help with the daily chores,pray about it,pray for his heart.Even when you ask,do it with alot of love and understanding. Let him know that you respect him by all means. I lived with my ex when he wasn't working and sometimes when we went out I would give him the money we were going to use. There are no rules on this,it depends on individuals and different relationships. Do things that make him feel like the man that he is.Remembering that loosing a job can kill one's self esteem,so do things that lift him. Its my thinking,I hope I make sense.
Lukia^ View Profile	"Separated" Posted : 7 Feb, 2014 12:09 AM Yes this is a social site where people can chat and learn.And make friends too.We all need encouragement in this life.This is a place people get encouraged.I love to read posts by members here.I learn alot from them.So whether I get a partner or not my stay here is gainful in my life.And I believe these sites are the best places to be.
Lukia^ View Profile	Similarities or Opposites? Posted : 6 Feb, 2014 11:57 PM I think when it comes to relationships,its good to be with someone that you have similarities otherwise you will be always disagreeing which is not healthy for a relationship.