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angel_in_mn View Profile	Does a man lose brownie points based on his age restrictions? Posted : 23 May, 2009 11:07 PM I can somewhat agree with that. I do agree I see it a lot where guys do have a much larger younger age restriction picked out than the older age restriction. I can't say why a person would do it - that's completely up to them, but I think the age difference is too much sometimes and the maturity levels can be way off. I'm 26 and I would not want to date someone who was 18 because the maturity level is usually extremely different. I also wouldn't date someone who is my Dad's age for the same reason (and other reasons). But, that's just me and my personal preference... I'm not at all saying relationships with situations like that won't work though because I know they can. But, the fact is that people can pick whatever range of ages they want and I don't think it means there is always a cause for concern...
angel_in_mn View Profile	How is my profile, ladies?` Posted : 16 May, 2009 11:03 PM I think your profile is great. A lot of information about yourself, but not excessive by any means. I don't really have anything to suggest. I think it's just fine. God bless, Miranda
angel_in_mn View Profile	fireproof Posted : 26 Apr, 2009 05:49 PM Hi :waving: There is already a topic about Fireproof - it is in this movie category under the title "New Christian Movie." There are a lot of interesting comments about the movie there. I just thought you would like to see those responses. Excellent movie by the way. God bless, Miranda
angel_in_mn View Profile	Is It Me Posted : 23 Apr, 2009 09:56 AM No, it is not YOU!! You need to be yourself and all the right relationships will come your way - whether it be a friendship, dating, marriage, whatever. You can�t ask someone what they are looking for in a man and then try to be that man. You are a unique individual and there are things that make you stand out in who you are. Just going off what you said, I kind of get the impression that you maybe try too hard sometimes when dealing with the opposite gender. Maybe some women are confusing your kindness for weakness?? Chozen2b is absolutely right � those relationships were not meant to be. So don�t dwell on the past, but just move on and look forward to the future. Don't let this drag you down.
angel_in_mn View Profile	Blocking people... Posted : 23 Apr, 2009 09:29 AM In our mail settings, we can add people to our blocked list. But why after you add someone to be blocked - they can still view your page, send you messages, try to instant message you?? Isn't that the reason for blocking someone?? I don't think that just because it is a Christian site means that it can go without ANY privacy options. Right now there are none in place. That has really bothered me from the beginning.

angel_in_mn View Profile	Ladies....Be Careful !! Posted : 19 Apr, 2009 08:47 PM Well, with any on-line community, the user just needs to be careful and apply some common sense - keep your profile private, don't comment on someone's page with your contact info, and mainly DON'T add people you don't know...that seems to be the most common mistake. If people do that, those types of communities can be great for keeping in touch with friends & family (especially if they live out of state). I just wish this site had more options for privacy with profiles..
angel_in_mn View Profile	My Dating Disaster - A multi-part epic Posted : 18 Apr, 2009 07:32 PM Yeah, this was really interesting to read. You are a phenomenal writer. Thanks a lot for sharing. God bless, Miranda
angel_in_mn View Profile	Do any guys READ the profiles? Posted : 7 Apr, 2009 03:11 PM I can somewhat agree. In one of the very first sentences of my profile, I clearly write "I do not instant message." And still I get guys who try to instant message me. That to me is pretty annoying and kind of disrespectful considering the person didn't take the time to read even a few sentences into my profile. I think there are a lot of good, decent guys on this site though too. Not trying to bring down all the good guys out there :)
angel_in_mn View Profile	My Dating Disaster - A multi-part epic Posted : 5 Apr, 2009 07:38 PM Keep it comin'!!
angel_in_mn View Profile	What Do Women Want? Posted : 4 Apr, 2009 11:13 AM Excellent question. I think that over the years women really get set in the type of man that they would consider for a relationship - and even for a friendship. I think a lot of women are really cautious in who they choose to speak to. And like you say, this is a Christian website, but you can�t really be sure of someone�s real intentions with why they are on the site - man or woman. I know I really don�t like it when I get the messages from guys that are just like �hey, you wanna chat?� I like a message that is at least somewhat a little more personal & definitely just friendly and also faith-based. But I will always give at least some type of response. You are absolutely correct when you said �Friendships & other relationships blossom with communication.� I�ve had good experiences with this site along with some that were just bizarre. But you can never know what to expect. God bless, Miranda