Why do women on here not usually write the guy first?

Posted : 22 Jan, 2009 10:04 AM

Hey!



I've only been on here for a couple days, but I've noticed that women will view my profile after I have looked at theirs and then that is it.



I honestly don't know if I'm supposed to try and "wink" at them or write to them or what.



That is why I say in my profile just IM me. It's much easier and it is something that is causal. Have you ever gotten an IM from someone and said, "sorry not interested"?



It gives you a chance to build a friendship foundation and if you get to the point where one (or hopefully both) feels ready to take the next step it will be much less akward



Plus I think the majority of us can agree that if we don't meet "the one" it never hurts to have a few new Christian friends.



Just my 2 cents :)