Findmepleas

find me please

Gender
Male | 56
Country
Canada
City
London
State
Ontario
Height
5'11"
Last Login Date
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Age
56
Eye Color
Hazel
Body Type
Athletic
Hair Color
Black
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Denomination
Christian Reformed
Looking For
A Long Term Relationship
Church Name
st jeromes
Church Attendance
No answer
Church Raised In
Catholic
Do you drink?
Socially
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Single
Do you have children?
Yes
Do you want children?
Does Not Want Children
Education Level
Some College
My Profession
Entrepreneur
Interests
many
About Me
You may want to grab a drink and a snack...cause its a long and deep write up.

If you could tell the whole world something what would you say?

Ok, here we go,,,,, who am I.?,,,,,,,, superman, no wait,,, maybe that was a comic book character.,,,,:)))),,,,,,,,

when they ask "do you want children"? ..do they mean the ones you already have ? lol...no seriously...

First and foremost I'm a single father and have 12 year old darling twin girls that live with me and pretty much ruin my life...I mean run my life.lol....they take everything from me...I mean they are everything to me..lol..jk..,,,,but really my girls are very awesome when they are visiting a friend or sleeping,,but i think they keep coming back because i keep feeding them,,,,does anyone know how to put them back?...if so message me please,,,,,lol

,,,,,,, if I really had to I would describe myself as,,,,,, stable in my career and goal oriented.i enjoy making people laugh and smile and have a very good sense of humor, I am intelligent, articulate and can carry on a conversation on just about everything. I have learned and believe communication is very key in relationships and listening is sometimes more important than speaking,.,,,, and I am a great listener, ,,:::::))). I am aware and become very aware of my thoughts and emotions and ego and I believe that I have truly started to come to know my " self ", ,, (although it has taken many years of practice and the road of this journey is long ,,,,,,and far from ending:)))))))),,,,,,,,,, I care about other peoples feelings and being in a relationship i believe that if it is important to one it should be important to the other.i like to be adventurous, romantic, sensual, playful and basically having and keeping that type of fun and intimacy in the relationship. I like to be of constant and consistent character believing in morals and values,,,,, I believe that if your not going to do it, ,, just don't say it ,,seems easy and reasonable too me, ,,,,,, I am very far from perfect, even my mother would agree, ,, lol,,,, but I do my best to do the right thing.

I am looking for someone to laugh with, travel with and build a life with. I am seeking some one of similar qualities that they can connect with. ..i feel that there has to be mutual physical attraction for our initial connection, and in my belief once we have connected in such a manner that the relationship (love) should become dedication, commitment, follow through, truly regarding each other, ,,,,and though for most of us, it seems that our eyes are the window to our heart, instead of our hearts being the window to our eye. So we probably pass right by individuals that would treat us as we should be treated or want to be treated, but instead of letting our hearts determine our relationships, we seldom give certain people a second thought because our eyes regulate whether we can love that person or not. Love is a conscious decision of commitment, not some fleeting emotion, love is patient, kind, it does not envy, or boast, it does not dishonor, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrong, it always protects, always hopes, always trusts, always perseveres, ,,,,what some of us dont really realize that looking for love may be a contradiction, love is something unique to each of us that we all possess inside ourselves and that level of love never increases or decreases, its what we do with that love that we have, ,,,,, what i believe is that we are searching for someone to reflect that unique love back to us and thats where we will find our match ( but that is quite the conversation). To me love is like the sun, its not selective it shines upon everyone.

I think having similar interests can enable us to enjoy some things together. I am not here for any one night stands, head games or nonsense as i am very genuine in my search and want a forever partner in life. And loyalty, dedication and commitment are of utmost importance as I am offering the same and much more. I believe that I am not your average man and have some very unique qualities, that i am certain any woman would appreciate. I do my best to not be judgmental or critical to anyone as i would have to take the log out of my own eye before i can see clear enough to help my friend with the speck in their eye.,,,which means that if i truly want to help someone but my way of helping someone is criticizing them , i should take a very close look at myself ....i seem to find myself seeing things from a different perspective than most as I always look at the other side, ,,,, its apparent that everyone is looking to find someone to fall asleep with and wake up with, and that is an easy criteria to fill, what i search for is someone for that and to fill the time in between also. I truly feel my glass is half full and sometimes inevitable things happen in life but I believe that it is how you respond that ultimately determines the outcome.i am a very positive individual and know that we all possess great energy and our thoughts and emotions have significant bearing and factors in our lives, ,,, lots to say on this, ,,,

People who know me would say im an extreme one,,,,, I seem to enjoy pushing the envelope for most things that I do, ,,, I love to play guitar, sing and play harmonica, drums, violin,,,eukelele,,,piano,,,kazoo lol,,,,, I love road trips, and i am into just being at home,,,,,, doing puzzles, ,,,,fleamarkets garage sales,,,shoplifting,,,:),, intimacy,,,or just relaxing, ,,, I love to ride my motorcycle, ,,,,,, golf. tennis .fishing. bowling .boating. reading, ,,, I am clean, smell good all the time ( according to my daughters ), hardworking, helpful, thoughtful and would love to delete this profile for " her ", ,,,,

There is much more and i will continue this later, ,,,, ok seriously now, where are you? ,,,,,

oh ....and i also "always"put the seat down". :)))
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