db13
Not by might nor power.
- Gender
- Male | 63
- Country
- United States
- City
- Rochester
- State
- Minnesota
- Height
- 5'9"
- Last Login Date
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- Age
- 63
- Eye Color
- Blue
- Body Type
- Athletic
- Hair Color
- Blonde
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Non-Denominational
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Where the streets have no name
- Church Attendance
- No answer
- Church Raised In
- Catholic
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Divorced
- Do you have children?
- Yes but they're grown
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- 4 Yr College Degree
- My Profession
- Creative Director
- Interests
- Poetry, art, design, photography, filmmaking, peacmaking, dreaming, changing the world :)
- About Me
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what am i looking for?
i spent time in several war torn / HIV aids devastated / poverty ridden areas last year. this experience and His Spirit really helped to solidify my life going forward. “plan a” is to strip away everything in my life that is non-essential to my ability to produce income, in order to maximize what i will be giving in this region of the world. with the “plan a” scenario i will live alone for the rest of my life - THIS WILL BE GREAT! i’ll be very HAPPY...
“plan b” i find someone (i call her “future her”) and she’s OK with the whole “plan a” thing!
OF COURSE - that greatly reduces the pool of women! what normal woman wants a guy who is going to give away as much income as he can? finding a future her is also limited by my age BUT to a much greater extent it’s limited by who future her strives to be. i have EXTREMELY high expectations.
i’m not concerned so much about looks/age/status/maybe a dozen other things of typical concern, i’m only concerned about her as a person. i’m looking for someone who i’d respect in big ways... future her must be a hero to me. she has to stand for something in life that’s big, she would walk amongst the clouds as a human being, she’d be selfless to a fault, passionate about life, passionate about the world, uncompromising in LOVE, uncompromising in her commitments, uncompromising in her ethics and somehow among all the great things that have meaning in her life - I WOULD BE FIRST. this of course would be a mystery... how could she possibly feel this way about me? but she would.
and i’d feel the same way about her.
i would look at her everyday and feel small, i’d feel completely inadequate to the point of fear. fear of not being worthy of her. she and i would both work hard, we’d over-compensate, we’d both become incredibly selfless, out of love but a little out of fear, the fear of losing the most important thing in our lives. and it wouldn’t end, because the better I become chasing how great “future her” is the harder she works to keep up, and we make each other, together so much better then we could have ever been separately.
i know - one weird profile! sounds arrogant doesn’t it? i’m not like that and it’s not about changing someone or changing one another it’s about inspiring one another.
i have received a little criticism that my theology is off (i.e. that i would put my wife ahead of God in my life). i’m happy to have that discussion with anyone. the notion that God asks me to LOVE her as Christ LOVES the church - with the condition that i don’t go to far in my LOVE for her? - the notion that He feels threatened? IS NONSENSE! He has giving me the freedom to LOVE her unconditionally! honestly i have found the Holy Spirit to be pretty secure about His place in my heart :)
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