In search of love

Male | 56
United States
New Mexico
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Eye Color
Body Type
Hair Color
Salt n Pepper
Christian Reformed
Looking For
A Long Term Relationship
Church Name
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
No answer
Do you drink?
1 or 2 on occasion
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Do you have children?
Yes but they're grown
Do you want children?
Does Not Want Children
Education Level
Some College
My Profession
administrative duties at a ministry
movies, sports, reading, writing, cooking, walks, church service, road trips to nowhere in particular, compelling conversation, slumber party, cuddling in front of a fire, comfortable silence, just to name a few
About Me
I spend a lot of my free time reading, mostly fiction with genres including crime stories, courtroom dramas, horror, and sci-fi. I also enjoy writing. I finished one sci-fi novel that turned out to be a bit cheesy, but I like it. I am currently working on another which is more of a period piece set in the late 1800's, about a teenage boy who loses both his parents and has to discover the world alone. I also enjoy the occasional movie or binge watching a tv series. I prefer being home when I'm off, I like cooking dinner and having a quiet evening at home. That being said, I'm not adverse to going out for dinner, a movie or other social event every once in a while and I do like taking an occasional road trip to nowhere in particular.
I am firm in my Christian values and attend church services on Sunday and Wednesday night. I am not interested in a carnal relationship, unless under the sanctity of marriage and I am searching for my Cinderella to spend the rest of my days with. I'm also not interested in marrying anyone two weeks after I met them. I want to take the time to truly get to know someone so that we are both confident that we can be compatible as friends and share a deep love forever.
I don't do drama and I don't play games. All relationships have their ups and downs and it takes maturity and good communication to get through those down times smoothly.
First Date
Finally meeting face to face with that woman I've been courting for weeks. flashing my awkward social skills, dry sense of humor and funny looking smile. The setting and activities are not important, it's the interaction, the sharing, the soft whispers, moments of silence filled by smiles that counts.
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