Looking for my rib...

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A Marriage Partner
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Valley of Blessing
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4 Yr College Degree
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About Me
Proverbs 18:22 New Living Translation (NLT)

The man who finds a wife finds a good thing, a treasure,
and he receives favor from the Lord.
New Living Translation (NLT)

Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

Proverbs 18:22 in all English translations

I seek to find my rib so that I can fulfill the purpose for which I have been created. A three-fold cord is not easily broken, so with the Holy Spirit in the center of the relationship, I truly believe that love will never fail, and the marriage will thrive. I am a big believer in what Paul wrote to the Ephesians:

Ephesians 5:25-26 New Living Translation (NLT)

25 For husbands, this means love your wives, just as Christ loved the church. He gave up his life for her 26 to make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God’s word.[a]

5:26 Greek washed by water with the word.

New Living Translation (NLT)

Holy Bible, New Living Translation, copyright © 1996, 2004, 2015 by Tyndale House Foundation. Used by permission of Tyndale House Publishers, Inc., Carol Stream, Illinois 60188. All rights reserved.

I have been told I am a man after God's own heart and called a lifesaver more times than I could count. Obviously, there is a special anointing on my life, so I feel it is imperative that my wife operates on that same frequency. Only time will tell who she is, but I look forward to finding out very soon, LORD-willing.

That being said, I have discovered that I am a Sapiosexual - meaning I am attracted to intelligence. Even if a woman is beautiful on the outside, she needs to have a brilliant mind, as well. I am the type of person who doesn't know any strangers, as the old saying goes, so deep, long, articulate conversations are very important to me. This is proven by the fact that I spent a lot of time and effort getting two Bachelor's Degrees from John Wesley University (Business Management; Biblical Studies).

I don't have tolerance for drama or foolishness. I am a man of highest integrity and transparency, so what you see is what you get. I don't play games. Other than that, I am just a big old teddy bear. I love me some snuggling and cuddling while watching movies or talking. I am also a clown who loves to laugh and have others share in my joy of life. I have been compared to Robin Williams, which is very humbling to me, because I consider him to be such a brilliant man.

I saw something recently that helped me understand more clearly the nature of the relationship between husband and wife. It was a picture with the word "sex", but it was an acronym that expressed the concept of it being a Sacred Energy eXchange. That resonated deeply with me, and cause me to ponder just how serious it is, and how we shouldn't play around with it. Unfortunately, having lived as the "old man" until 2007 when I came to know the LORD, and even falling into temptation since then, despite my best intentions, I haven't accepted that responsibility with the maturity that I now have. As a man, I have come to realize that the greatest gift God gives to us is that of a woman's heart. Therefore, it should not be taken lightly - in fact, it should be handled with the same utmost respect and care that we would in the LORD's Name, and bearing His image. This is why it is so important to me to make sure that my wife is truly my rib, and operating on the same frequency and the same anointing as me. Otherwise, it will be disastrous.

If that sounds like I am your kind of man, please reach out to me to establish some dialogue. I look forward to hearing from you soon...

First Date
It would be nice to meet for coffee or light dinner. I am more of a homebody these days, so I would even like to cook a meal for a date, followed by a movie. Regardless, I am up for deep conversation that engages the mind and soul.
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