“Man will not live until he loves, giving himself away to another on his own level” -Derek Kidne
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As we open our bibles to the first beginning chapters of Genesis, we read when God created man, he noticed something was missing. There was a void in man. As beautiful as Adams garden was and as pleasant as it was to name all the animals and be with them.. Niether the plants nor the animals could fulfill him. “The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
This is where we see a woman’s purpose for being created. She was specifically made for man to be his helper and to bear him children. It is no wonder why a woman feels incomplete without her man. This is the reason why we see many women plan their wedding so diligently. Sometimes even before she has even found a candidate!! Lol Everything from the reception, Decorations, down to the invitations has to be perfect. She wants to make that day as beautiful and as unforgettable as possible because this is how she officially becomes a (suitable helper) before the eyes of the Almighty God.. He (God) has placed in her heart the deep desire for marriage which is where she finds her greatest satisfaction in knowing that she is being obedient to her calling, by full filing her role as a helper to her husband and bearing him children.
Lately I’ve been feeling the call to fatherhood/marriage. As I grow older I can feel it get stronger. God has also placed in mans heart a desire for a wife and children. We can clearly see that when we read (Genesis 1:27-28).
“So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. And God blessed them. And God said to them, 'Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it and have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over every living thing that moves on the earth.' "
It is evident from these verses why we all eventually come to desire a family. God has laid it in our hearts to want that.
Now a man has to give a specific thing to his wife for all this to work. And that is love. But for him to have the ability to give her this love this man HAS TO KNOW GOD. He absolutely HAS TO KNOW GOD. We read in (1 John 4: 7-8) why this is crucial.
“7 Beloved, let us love one another, for LOVE is FROM GOD, and whoever LOVES has been BORN OF GOD and KNOWS GOD. 8 Anyone who DOES NOT LOVE DOES NOT KNOW GOD, because God IS LOVE.”
If we were to look at Gods love as a fire. We could say that the closer we get to the fire .. The more warmth we would feel. And if We were to hug someone as soon as we left the fire.. They would instantly feel the full warmth that we received from the fire. In the same way as we draw closer to God.. His love begins to radiate off Himself too us... And in turn.. That is how a man gives love to his wife.. By the Love he CONTINUES to receive from God.
That is why this verse is so important because this is what a woman needs from her husband. But she will only find it in a man who KNOWS GOD. It’s also the reason why Christians should not be unequally yoked in marriage. Our spiritual needs can ONLY be FOUND IN God.
In the last 3 years I’ve enrolled in school to study plumbing and carpentry. I graduated from both and I plan on going back one last time to study heating and air conditioning. I not only want to be able to provide for my future family but I also want to teach my children as many skills as possible. I want them to be intelligent and God fearing children.
With that being said, my goal is to find my best friend. I expect you to be very imperfect.. But with that I can assure you I will always forgive you as I hope you would do the same for me. Above all things let us share the same faith and belief. Any foundation built on biblical principles shall remain firm in place.
I’ve been starting to write my own music and I hope you will enjoy my work not only by listening to it but by also collaborating with me. If you have big dreams .. I promise you, I’ll help you make them come true. You can always expect me to push you to be better at what you love doing. I want to enjoy this life with you and take on all the challenges that come with it together. Let’s travel the world and make new memories at places we’ve never been and seen!! Would you be opposed if we made Volunteering a big part of our relationship? How does movie night Tuesday sound? Should we make Monday’s our day to make an intentional effort to make each other laugh throughout the day?:) Did I hear a Yes?.. lol Do you have a heart to learn? Let’s learn a new language together or learn a new instrument and use it to bring joy to our hearts. How about making it a habit to go for long walks alternating between mornings and nights? How would you feel if we started reading a certain book from the Bible and have a dialogue about it first thing in the morning? I’ve always wanted to go hiking in Colorado .. Would you care to join me?
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