TheNightowl

Part-Time nerd waiting for fulltime partner in crime

Gender
Female | 34
Country
United States
City
Rockford
State
Minnesota
Height
5'9"
Last Login Date
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Age
34
Eye Color
Black
Body Type
A Few Extra Pounds
Hair Color
Red
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Denomination
Church of Christ
Looking For
Anything
Church Name
two cities church
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
Lutheran
Do you drink?
No
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Separated
Do you have children?
Yes
Do you want children?
Want Children
Education Level
2 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Teacher
Interests
Bible studying, DSA or DnD, music (making and listening), art such as painting and drawing, hiking, camping, watching movies, swimming, bicycle riding, reading the bible, cooking and baking,
About Me
WARNING THIS IS A VERY LONG PROFILE
your attention is required. To get to know me read carefully. somewhere in this will be a question hidden. good luck finding it :D


my name is Jess I am 31 years old . I am a full time single mother of a wonderful young man (7 years of age with a bubbly and sweet personality)

I am
Originally from Germany and moved here a little while ago (the reason that brought me here is a long story)

I carry my heart on my sleeves and tend to make a bad first impression sometimes due to my openhearted and honest nature but also those who enjoy honesty and true care enjoy my presence... I am kind of a extroverted introvert with anxiety PTSD and BPD (but it is all manageable for me and should be no issue just have in mind that I have sometimes more in my head going on than it meets the eye).

I don’t spent much time without my family (like literally hardly ever) which results in that I don’t go out or such... i also don't miss it, because it is unchristian in my eyes and could lead to frivole temptations that I do not need... I recently got baptized but I have been doing multiple bible studies and I am using the YouBible app to do studies on my own. the lord is my shepperd! my favorite psalm 23 is my life motto... I love to have conversations about the bible about believe and the meaningful things in life!

God saved me from my destructive marriage. He led me thru dark valleys thru the shadows of death and hell on earth! my personal hell... and I realized that the more I learn the more I fall in love with our lord and our God! He is so good!

but besides trying my best to be a disciple I am a part time nerd...
I am totally for having a video game datenight with pizza and the chalange to figure out who is more advanced in the game...(I’d love to play more sometimes but I recently moved a lot and had to sacrifice my old consoles *ps4 a switch and a psp to be close to my family here...) my absolute favorite games are open world games such as red dead redemption one and two or days gone. Besides those I love tekken and the old classics... also I love DnD or better said DSA (german version) and the binding of Isaac the card game...

but above all I live up to read the bible which is encouraging me teaching me and filling my heart with hope and joy... It got me thru so much in my life (things years of therapie had no chance to get me thru and probably will not get me thru).
but I am not just all for sitting at home

I love the great outdoor. gods creation.
I love to be outside somewhere alone with 0 people around and no technology in the woods far far away (it’s so relaxing with no one around and be just in nature lets just grab a tent and yhe car and leave the town into the woods)

I love to share my happiness and my laughs and my love to god... I laugh about all sorts of jokes and love puns but since English is my second language I need sometimes a little explanation... that doesn’t make the joke less funny...

How would I describe my ideal partner....

A smart guy with the will to learn new things in his life or try new things in his life! A man that goes to church regularly reads the Bible and does not shy away reading it with me or to me (i love quotes out of the bible and someone that is mindful). and would like to live a life like god wants us to live... no adultry no lies and no silence... A adventurer just like me with nerd qualities! Someone that speaks his mind and hates lies just like I do! Someone that laughs a lot and loves to make others laugh. a guy that values a woman with a good heart and the will to go thru anything with her partner.
A guy who is not allergic to kids or even has kids himself and eventually wants (more) kids himself with the right woman...
It would be absolute a dream for me if you were taller than I am (I know so clichè!!!! it isn't adead criteria because god knows what is best for me but think about this way I am a 5’9” tall woman I am strong and independent most of the time and my deepest wish is to find a man that will go thru anything with me...
I truly want to find a guy that gives me the feeling I can count on him! someone that has the strength to be there thru hard times and good times no matter what! someone that does not just promises to be around but is willing to be there the same as I want to be for him

someone that knows how put our lord Jesus first and wants to follow him no matter what (someone that might be able to handle someone with a big heart, that cares sometimes too much and wants to serve the lord *) I would love to find a partner that can wrap me in his arms and make me feel small and vulnerable but save and wanted! a big romantic softy if you want to say so but with honesty and loyalty... i wouldn't even mind a rough tough past as long as Jesus is Lord now and he knows himself good enough to know what he wants.

If you are having all those qualities and if you fully fulfill my description great but there is more to that... catch me with intelligent conversations with your dreams your personality and your Ideas. I would love to find a guy I can talk about everything laugh about anything and conversate on a high level. Make fun about eachother and still feel like we are on the same level of attraction;)

absolute no go:
The most annoying thing is someone that does not read my profile and puts no effort and interest in getting to know each other (I mean getting to know each other is connected with effort)
The “i tell you what ever you wanna hear” guy to get what he wants...
Dumbness and mindlessness!!!!

The "trust me I am your dream guy".... "let's get flirtatious" "you are beautiful....but i don't take you serious" the "let's hookup and see where things go" type
A "I am just one or two subjects interested and don't want to look over the edge of my plate" guy.
Someone that gets very rude if I don't answer right away... (I am not always online and I have often just not the time to check my mailbox multiple times a day or sometimes I am just socially drained from all that is coming with in this world when it comes to social networking)

Besides that thank you for your attention i hope to hear from you

you made it! wanna get to know each other now?
what's your favorite bible verse?


update I got baptized finally on June 16th 2021. Jesus is Lord!
Isaiah 40:31
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