Ish_Chesed
Living life to fulfillment, Hi...
- Gender
- Male | 48
- Country
- South Africa
- City
- George
- State
- Western Cape
- Height
- 6'1"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 48
- Eye Color
- Brown
- Body Type
- Athletic
- Hair Color
- Salt n Pepper
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Interdenominational
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Do you drink?
- 1 or 2 on occasion
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Divorced
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- 4 Yr College Degree
- My Profession
- Technical Management and Education Specialist
- Interests
- I value family, time spend in doing life together, creating healthy spaces. I celebrate life in the small things that matter like togetherness, responsibility, cearing & being active, visual & performing arts. Work smarter, loving relationships, ambition
- About Me
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Due to PR contract restrictions, in my work. I can't show a close-up profile image on a dating platform, sorry!!
My life is wrapped around my walk with God and that comes first. I live a strong-willed, yet kind and non judgemental faith centered life with a moral compas. Guarding over and enjoying my peace and relationship with God.
My happy places are in the joys and experiences with family and friends, deep meaningful relationships, healthy values, goodwill to many, the mountains, the tranquillity of rumbling water and long cycles. I have an enduring capacity and just love life in the ordinary as well as extraordinary..
I really-really love spending time, in and amongst worship, prayer and studying the Word, in order to gain insight and new revelation.
I seek out the comfort and joy of truthful, loving sincere relationships with all my friends and steer towards authenticity.
As a very technical and somewhat intellectual creative, I enjoy making something artistic or doing woodworking projects and I'm somewhat practical. I frequently do research about a new project or I'm studying/ reading something deeply, sharing the joy in togetherness as well.
Life is there to be lived in accountability to the goodwill of others and meaningful choices.
I'm VERY sportive and physically active with an appetite for endurance and adventure sports and really like to rough it up or jump into challenges.
I seek out opportunities to make memories in good company. Celebrating life, in the mist of uncertainties, while investing in the lives of others.
My personality is quite reserved yet confident in a professional environment where I can sometimes be bit more articulate when it's appropriate, yet joyfully expressive and somewhat quirky and free as a free spirited person. I enjoy life and make memoriesof of small things, aloof of the opinion of people.
I climb in boots and all, in everything I put my hand and heart to.
Trying to be tactful and respectful, I easily contribute or lead up if required but like to first leave space for others to slowly blossom.
Respecting boundaries and other personalities we should also have confidence to share our own person, while enjoying each other and even be free to be the awkward characters that doesn't always fit in ..
I really don't like foul language, aggressive arrogant attitudes or sexually inappropriate joking and gestures or actions and attitudes that devalue the worth of woman and children or when arrogant people degrade people that struggle through life..
Note:
It's not a list to compare yourself to for performance. I just share what I relate to. No one person can fulfill all the needs and interests of another. But hopefully you spot a good portion of things you also relate to.
To me, sincerity and the true character of your person or to rephrase, who you really are or still esteem to grow into, is of more importance than getting everything right.
I would love to team up with an elegant, gentle sincere, assertive in your self worth, tactful, respectful and fun-loving lady with a good sense of humour that genuinely value character above personal gain or self-enrichment. I appreciate kindness. I can stand my ground with a spirited person, but in my home, mutual respect and dignity are valued, yet there's truthfulness and tremendous strenth into having the confidence to be vulnerable with your shyness as well.
Hopefully someone with ambition to leave a legacy and build and uplift herself and make a difference within community.
Someone that really loves the Lord more than a religious culture. That enjoys life, the arts and music, as well as taking care of herself. That can also spoil and love herself in things she like. That loves to dance and wants to fly.
That can feel apreciated, sensual and carry herself formally in a lovely evening dress with a hopeless romantic as much as she can express herself and be at home in her jeans and shorts and dirty feet with messed up hear.
That's willing to communicate and work through the real hard stuff needed to build a healthy life and relationship together for it to become an extraordinary union.
Although I'm very sportive, there's no need for her to be an athlete, but just someone that genuinely and actually enjoys an active lifestyle like the outdoors, camping, hiking etc. but that can also be Ok to just relax and be together.
I'm kind off old school and grew up on the farm. Boys need to be boys, and a fearless girl is brave, she's not a tomboy. So we will drave her grazy if she's over protective but rather be also willing to take kids into those spaces to experience life to fulfillment.
Yes Jumping of waterfalls with me and maybe climb a few rock faces or a good paddle would be a bonus though.. Because there you will taste an expression of my person that you might not find somewhere else.
Just someone that really also appreciate the outdoors and not just politely participate or allow me to do that. I want to share experiences not tel her afterwards while she waits at home.
I'm not an adrenaline junky I want to spend time with family and with the kids when that time arrives. Man I enjoy doing projects around the house just as much.
I'm looking for someone that want to create a living and loving atmosphere. That can laugh out loud when we're covered in mud or persist together and bring joy into boring ordinary stuff and not be all angry, irritated and toxic with petty nonsense like a fire ant.. rear in the air and slamming doors.. snapping at everything in their fears.
That would love to dance between the ills and a shopping trolley if the right song is playing. Who cares if nobody else does it. That's not afraid of people or at least willing to trust me and try new things if her personality is a bit shy. Someone with 'n golden heart that's self-sacrificing to lay her life down for others to seek out the Fathers heart.
Someone that want to build a solid friendship first towards a covenant union that actually want to retain trust and faithfulness everlasting in relationship.
I believe in appropriate and open communication that builds up and resolve occasional differences. I don't do childish shouting, backstabbing and manipulative arguments, silent tempers or ghosting. I stear away from unhealthy co-dependent demands, and work out stuff that needs healing but I have loving arms and an empathic heart to embrace and support emotionally.
I'm praying for a mature person or someone with the guts to deal with immaturity that actually want to intently cultivate a healthy loving awesome relational space, with the dignity to be authentically real.
That dare to want to be fully known, share and expose vulnerability, cuddles and comfort in touch time that seek out to really love another...
Someone that want to plan and build a life together. Someone to grow old with with guts to retain her own personality and opinions and be a character in her own play and keep me accountble to deal with I still need to grow into.
A team player.
Someone that's willing to communicate and prioritise our relationship. Willing to love my rough edges or cover that in grace as much as I'm willingto love unconditionally. Someone willing to be an imperfect soul themselves just still in proses to discover and continue being shaped by God's Word, and be loved for who the are..as well.
I'm looking for my favourite person, lover and friend. Not a fling or or a chance or the objectification of someone's unfulfilled emotional needs.
This is what I do know for sure..:
It only takes 21 days to deliver a mouse. Elephants carry their young for 18 months..
You're waiting all this time and all these years wasn't in vain. When God is in it, there's definitely a reason why you haven't stepped into your vision.
Because there's allot more within it to encompasses than an elephant or a mouse!
Don't loose heart!
Life isn't always a fairy-tale, but a good team can make it extraordinary and significant!!
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