HEYGEN
Woman in Christ Seeks Man in Christ
- Gender
- Female | 73
- Country
- United States
- City
- MOHRSVILLE
- State
- Pennsylvania
- Height
- 5'2"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 73
- Eye Color
- Green
- Body Type
- Slender
- Hair Color
- Blonde
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Protestant
- Looking For
- A Long Term Relationship
- Church Name
- The Bridge
- Church Attendance
- Several times a year
- Church Raised In
- Non-denominational
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Widowed
- Do you have children?
- Yes but they're grown
- Do you want children?
- Does Not Want Children
- Education Level
- Masters/Post Grad
- My Profession
- Professional Counselor-Retired
- Interests
- Cooking, reading, listening to music (gospel, country, oldies, R&R, and watching movies
- About Me
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First, I need to thank readers for taking the time to stop by. It is my hope that those who made the investment to read this writing, will, in some way, come away from consuming it more inspired than they were before they reviewed this rendition of my life. As was the case with many women, especially in the seventies, I married and had four children. Of the sons God blessed me with, one of my identical twins died at birth, and, the other went to be with the Lord 25 years later. Concerning my other 2 sons, well in their middle-age now, they’ve gone on to have successful careers and families; and, in reference to my husband, though he mourned our sons’ loss, too, he appeared to navigate life well after these devastating events occurred.
But, as for me, the experience of the loss of my youngest (who had required much care due to his many handicaps), left me with so much emptiness, I could hardly stand it. Nonetheless, through the passing of tears, fears, and prayers, God not only walked me through that season, He also led me to my “what’s next” by reminding me how useful I could be in helping parents with children like my son. As such, I’ve became encouraged to return to school to do just that.
However, the taking of this educational journey was no sprint, and, seemed like a ludicrous idea to have, because, I was a high-school drop-out (which meant, I first needed to get my GED). I was already in my fifties. And, I was far from a great student then, when I was there thirty years ago, so, why should I think I could do well enough now if I went back? Further, I had no real funds to pay for the education I needed for that dream to come true.
Despite all that being so, I did earn my GED, went on to acquire an associates degree, then earn a BS in psychology; and, finished off the endeavor by earning a masters degree in professional counseling - all with a 4.0 gpa - at the age of 65.
Now equipped with degrees in hand, I went out to find a job and landed a position I’ve longed to have as a child counselor; and, boy, was I really good at it. But, all that ended with my husband’s stage 3 esophageal cancer diagnosis, which, sadly, took his life l8 months later - despite all the love, care, and medical treatments he went through, it still was just not enough to keep him here.
We were married nearly 54 years. Of all the tragedies, I’ve gone through, this was extremely cataclysmic to me. We had a good marriage and I just could hardly bare his absence; but, whether we want it to be or not, life goes on.
God has been with me through all of this tragedy, too, in several ways by: continuously praying to Him, having the great fog lifted that landed on me as a result of this horrific event; and, the inspiration I’ve got from my anchor verse, which is “The fear of the Lord tendeth to life, and he who hath it shall abide satisfied . . .” (Proverbs 19:23 KJV).
Here, I find clear instructions that we need to tend to life, because, we simply are not able to tend to the dead. For God would have made a way if we were. Hence, with the passing of nearly 2 years, I am persuaded, I’m ready to seek the man God’s chosen for me to tend to life with,
In transitioning to the subject of what I would be looking for in a man I’d consider could be a match for me (that goes beyond chemistry and appearance), I would hope for that man to know how to love (as close as he’s able) as described in 1 Corinthians chapter 13. At the same time, I would like that individual to challenge me when he thinks what I’m saying is wrong, in a way, that both parties would have bias more for the “what’s right” of an issue than they would be prone to side with the “who’s right” in any matter.
Additionally, when these challenges arise, I would wish for that man to consider how his words land in a kind and thoughtful way. Although it almost goes without saying, I feel it proper to nonetheless say: that man would need to share the same non-negotiable values that I have, which, can be found in His Holy Word.
In other words, from my view, that partner would always do their best to show respect; be a good listener; create a safe environment; and have a good sense of humor.
- First Date
- Not being one that looks for much ‘blink,’ I think a fine date would be to go to a quaint and cozy coffee house, have a cup of Joe and just have a “get-to-know-you” conversation that’s low-key and comfortable for both of us
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