1WiseWoman

~*Energetic, Optimistic & Genuine*~

Gender
Female | 61
Country
United States
City
Euless
State
Texas
Height
5'4"
Last Login Date
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Age
61
Eye Color
Blue
Body Type
Slender
Hair Color
Brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Denomination
Non-Denominational
Looking For
Anything
Church Name
Prefer not to reveal
Church Attendance
Once or Twice a month
Church Raised In
Baptist
Do you drink?
1 or 2 on occasion
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
No way
Marital Status
Divorced
Do you have children?
Yes but they're grown
Do you want children?
Does Not Want Children
Education Level
4 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Ballroom Dance Instructor
Interests
Partner Dancing (Ballroom, Swing, Salsa, C&W), Jazz, R&B, Big Band Music, Anita Baker, Kenny G, Coffee Drinking
About Me
If I added you to my "Favorites" but didn't WRITE to you, then I'm interested, but your settings (probably age) didn't allow ME to write to YOU. Also, I don't send "winks" to anyone, and I won't reply to any either--they require no effort and don't tell me that you actually read my profile and are interested in something specific I said that caught your attention.

I notice that a lot of you are "missing a rib" LOL...it's going to be hard for you to keep up with me on the dance floor!

I am a woman of virtue, integrity and morals who is strong and knows exactly who she is. I am comfortable being alone (which is different than lonely) and, in fact, value highly my alone time. I'm independent and secure enough that I'm not searching for a man to define me or make me "complete." I am complete in Christ. Do I WANT to date and have companionship?--yes, that would be desirable, but not necessary. I have taken a break from dating for over 9 years (by choice), and I am now ready to get out again and meet some new people, make friends, and date, not necessarily with the intent for it to become serious. I would be open for that, but not "looking." You must be a secure man who values women and is not intimidated by her strength and confidence.

I am spunky, energetic, outgoing, conversational, compassionate, sincere, optimistic, honest and F-U-N! I need to hang out with someone who can keep up with my energy level! NO couch potatoes please! Most people think I am many years younger than I am!! Age is just a number for sure! I probably have more energy than some 20- or 30-yr-olds! I love to dance ballroom and swing, so you must understand that this requires a partner. If you want to learn and be that partner, then great!--otherwise, you cannot be jealous of me being in the arms of another man to do this! My skill/hobby/passion/job requires this in order to do it, so you must be OK with this (if we end up dating). I am pursuing my passion of teaching ballroom dance to others to share the fun and joy! Best job in the world that is not even a job!

It amazes and disappoints me how many Christian men (and I'm sure women too) try to talk sexual in texts, emails, and chat! Even more shocking is how many of them want to exchange photos or videos in a sexual manner! I also don't understand why some tend to think that sexual immorality is not a sin and try to justify it. I am also disappointed in that some Christians think that "some" sexual acts are OK. Anything sexual outside of marriage is a sexual sin, and Jesus even said to stay away from just the LUST of the eyes, because it will LEAD to the path of destruction! Since God's design is to only have sex within the confines of marriage, God had a reason--He knew what He was doing! You do NOT need to "see" if you will be sexually compatible before marriage! If your romantic relationship is truly from God, then all will work out as it should. Also men--if you are truly a Godly man, you would not disrespect a woman by talking, touching, or pressuring her sexually! I have dated and been in relationships with many "Christian" men and, not once, did ANY of them completely refrain from attempting this type of behavior in some way! The funny thing is that the only guy who ever did this and respected me completely was a man who was NOT a Christian AND the one where we had THE MOST chemistry with each other than I've ever had with any other man!! Even so, we never touched each other sexually or talked sexually for the entire 6 months we were together! No, he was not gay either. He was a man who knew what "respect" was, even though he wasn't a Christian! I'm sooo tired of hearing that "guys need it more than women" or "we will have physical issues if we go too long" !!!! Take that up with GOD--He designed your body the way it is and STILL said don't do it unless you are married! Nuff said. Here is a fantastic message from a pastor on the subject: http://gatewaypeople.com/sermons/175946

I was the victim of a "Romance Scam!" If you are not familiar with this term, you should educate yourself immediately!! The fact that you are HERE makes you at-risk!! In a nutshell, the person you are communicating with and whose photos you are admiring or drooling over may not even be THAT person!! If this is the case, you are most likely talking to someone who lives in either Nigeria or Russia! This includes men AND women profiles! Some of the women profiles are actually MEN behind them!! Please go to http://www.romancescam.com/ AND ANOTHER: http://www.romancescams.org/ RIGHT NOW to educate yourself before it's too late! Just be careful on here and check things out thoroughly before you get in too deep and get victimized by either losing money and/or getting your heart broken! I would be happy to help you verify anything, if you think you may be possibly talking with a scammer! Big Clue: If they ask for money--it's a scam!! But there are many other "warning signs" BEFORE they even ask for the money! You can Google images and paragraphs of their "too good to be true" emails to see if they come up with other profile names/sites or articles stating they are involved in a scam...
First Date
First of all, I expect my time to be respected, as I have a very busy life. I am not available on a whim at the last minute, since this also doesn't show me that you truly wanted to go out with me--because you didn't take time to PLAN for your date with me. Asking last-minute also makes it appear as if I was just an "afterthought," or the person you REALLY wanted to go out with cancelled at the last minute. If you REALLY wanted to take me out and REALLY respected my time, you would ask at least 1 WEEK ahead. This is not being "picky"....this is me setting healthy boundaries and, as I said in my opening paragraph--I am not desperate and needy. I DO expect you to respect me and my time though. With that being said, I would do just about anything, except go to a movie. I'm not sure why people think movies are a good first date (or second, third, fourth, etc, for that matter)...It's your first chance to get to know that person and to see if you can even communicate with them, so why go somewhere that is completely non-communicative, where you don't even face each other, and where you do not get to talk to them or look at them?! I don't do movies, unless I'm already good friends or we are already a couple. Of course, anything dance related would be awesome!
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