Starfishalone
StarfishAlone
- Gender
- Female | 59
- Country
- United States
- City
- San Antonio
- State
- Texas
- Height
- 5'8"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 59
- Eye Color
- Hazel
- Body Type
- Well Proportioned
- Hair Color
- Brown
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Non-Denominational
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Peace that surpasses all understanding
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Lutheran
- Do you drink?
- 1 or 2 on occasion
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Does Not Want Children
- Education Level
- Some College
- My Profession
- Architecture
- Interests
- Spirituality, Volunteering, Water, Travel, Outdoors, Culture, Reading, Relaxing, Culinary Delights, History; Enjoy the finer things, and the simple. My interests are varied, exception of sports. I never stop learning. I mean why would you?
- About Me
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Before messaging me, please carefully read my profile. I seek a healthy Christian marriage and family. I come from a good Christian home with a long line of lifetime marriages. Due to unfortunate experiences on Christian dating sites, it compels me to share some essentials so as to not misuse anyone's invested time, or hurt someone's heart. Many men that I meet are not leaders, nor are we on the same page with biblical understanding. I need a strong leader, and a real man that is my protector and provider. This man is not intimidated by me, but rather encourages me in my gifts. This man knows how to manage his household, and treat me as a lady. He also understands that a wife and husband are each other's priority in a marriage (after God). Note: If you relish in a state of perpetual boyhood, or adhere to the peter-pan syndrome of today's modern man, please do not contact me.
The most important ingredients are LOVE, FAITH, and HOPE. These most precious attributes are like finding a needle in a hay stack these days. Thankful, that we can remain in HOPE that our almighty powerful God performs MIRACLES to bring together and connect HIS people.
First, I am asking God to bring my Boaz, meaning my protector and provider as is God's design. This man knows how to honor me as his wife. Secondly, this man understands God's order of design, meaning God is #1, Spouse or Marriage is #2, Ministry (if children are grown and if one has a ministry that God calls you to) #3 and family/friends #4. Note: If there are grown children over the age of 30 that are dependent upon you, and have not flown the coop, a marriage will not work - and please do not contact me.
Essentials
(1) We are on the same page with theological understanding. (2)You are able to embrace my personality, and temperament (3) You are serious about intentional courting to determine if we are a match (4) You want and are ready for a relationship/marriage (5) You are spiritually mature (6) You are a balanced Christian spiritual leader, provider and protector (7) You are interested in growing together in an intimate relationship, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually; celebrating/supporting each other's gifts; embracing each other's love languages. If you are unable to answer (yes) to these essentials, please do not contact me.
Gentlemen,
Thank you for visiting my profile
My interest is in a Godly man that knows how to love, and desires to make a marriage work. When two people make each other the priority as God teaches, the rest of the world falls into place. A man with God at the center of his heart is the guy for me. Can you meet people where they are, no matter their walk of life? My hope is for someone that will enjoy participating in some form of ministry with me; such as leading a home Bible study, service activities or general acts of grace and kindness - you get the picture - I need a man with a servants heart that is a leader, provider and protector and one that is thankful for everyday blessings. Note: I am a 15 year breast cancer survivor. Please consider if enough Godly love resides in your heart to overlook prior to contacting me.
A non-career minded professional career woman, waiting for my smart, interesting and fun spiritual leader gentleman that will always protect me. A social introvert, goofball at heart, romantic, intellect with a few special talents/gifts. One of those rare individuals that can run into a wall, cannot remember where my keys are, lost in space without navigation. In other words a bit off balance.
However, if we were lost in a forest, I would be the one to find our way out. I am creative, sensitive, empathetic, as well as serious. Would love to relax in the company of a special person with whom I am comfortable. God blessed me with exposure to the best of the world's offerings and also confirmed that my happiness is found in the simple pleasures of life ; watching a good movie, reading or enjoying nature, inspiring music, museums, culture, history, etc. Supportive people such as family, loved ones and good friends are important to me and play a substantial role in my well-being.
In some seasons, God moves me out of ministry and dispatches others to minister to me. As a life-long learner, my interests are varied. How joyful it would be for me to participate together with someone in activities that are of mutual interest. My personality is balanced and one in need of down time to recharge from an often hectic life. This includes a peaceful, relaxed and flexible environment with limited anxiety producing stimuli. I seek a balanced life, yet at the same time, a life that is agile and sensitive to God's leading. " Out of this World" is the journey of God's "Great Adventure!" Let's GO! Would love to share with someone special.
False Beliefs
In these days, many people are spiritually blinded. I have met many Christians that do not believe in the inerrancy or authority of the Bible as God's Word. Instead they view it as a resource to their spiritual life; Others, subscribe to dangerous progressive church theology which includes among many things; the ancient formation of spiritual disciplines stemming from the Catholic Church and Eastern Religion practices. These practices filtered into the church back in 75 AD. and was really bad in 400 AD. Look up Gnosticism. If you are one of these Christians, or if you practice Yoga, or otherwise believe that one can participate in the modern day brewing and deceptive concoction that supplements Christianity with any form of Eastern Religious practice, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME.
I am a balanced person, not a fundamentalist, a legalist or a Pharisee; I believe in the Trinity - God the Father, Jesus Christ the Risen Son/Lord and the Holy Spirit, plus the spiritual gifts, and the Bible as God's Word. While I believe in and witness everyday miracles, signs and wonders, I do not believe in experience based doctrine; at the same time I do not subscribe to the idea of Christianity as an institution. However, I realize the need to worship and participate in fellowship with the Body of Christ where God plants me; can participate in a variety of protestant churches. I am aware of and do not condone the modern day false teachings that are hostile toward God's Word and that seek to twist and devise a new form of liberal Christianity.
Interests
Great music, beach, water, laughter, reading, writing, researching, history, architecture, design, high culture and low culture, relaxing, hiking, boating, travel, dogs, people, church, sitting by a warm hearth in a cabin or ski lodge sipping hot chocolate, relishing in the sheer delight of hearing a concert pianist playing a composition just for me, dog watching is one of the most joyous things in the world, walking and observing painted cloud formations, conversation, silence, spiritual, the physical reaction of laughter, laughter, laughter... Please be able to make me laugh. Can you laugh at yourself - if not, I will :-D for you? Do you sing in the shower?
Personality
Meyers Brigg - ISTP and INTP- Thinking and Feeling are tied.
People may think that I am an extrovert because I converse with people. However, I do better with one-one conversations and in small group settings. Since I connect through emotion, I need time to process, think things through and down-time. On the other end of the spectrum as a big picture contemplator, I can lose the majority of the detail, be spontaneous, not sweat the small stuff and be flexible and agile. I love to have fun, but life is challenging enough. If there is drama in your life, I am not the person for you.
My profile may sound a bit complex to you. Be assured that I simply need a foundationally solid and balanced spiritual leader/protector Christian man with God at the center of his heart. May God bless and connect each of you to your special person.
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