- Eye Color
- Body Type
- Hair Color
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Coosada Baptist Church
- Church Attendance
- Once or Twice a month
- Church Raised In
- Do you drink?
- Anything invigorating! College Football, Netflix, Hiking, Small Groups, Drawing
- About Me
Hi I hope you are well! I need to start and say I can't date anyone that is not in the United States. I appreciate the sentimental message though and I hope and pray you find someone that lives at least somewhere so you don't have to travel internationally for a date :)
I am willing to go the distance and put tons of effort to get to know you and make a relationship work! Thats the ultimate goal. But it might mean you have to show a bit of interest back to get anywhere which means you might have to return some questions. Just basic communication which is needed for a healthy relationship. Stds are a dealbreaker but it doesn't mean we can’t be friends though.
I wish I could write enough to give you an impression of what I am like. I hope to give you a sense of how I approach life, what I value, and what I wish to accomplish. In all of my years have learned that my life isn't about me but what I make of it. Most people I am close to would probably say I'm the most easy-going person they know. I'm a firm believer in treating other's how I would like to be treated. I took the Ipersonic test and was labeled the good natured realist. I am basically a harmony addict! LOL
Many times I have more questions than answers. I am far from what would be considered perfect or the ideal man in the world's eyes. I am okay with that! If my goal in life was to be accepted by everyone, I would be as a leaf in a tornado being tossed every which way. I have never met a happy people pleaser. The opinions of others are just that, their opinion. It does not define or shape you unless your concern for it does. I've learned to stand firm in who I am and who God has called me to be. I've also learned that we are living in a love obsessed yet love starved world. My goal is if this online dating or dating in general doesn't pan out well for me, I'm just going to love the people in my life in the best way I can! Life is just too short and the best way to love those is to be KIND. I love kindred spirits ;)
I also am an artist! I didn't have any interests in the arts until one day in college I took an elective class and something in me really resonated well with drawing. I've been drawing on average an hour every day since then which was about twelve years ago! God has really brought some things to light by this, not only different ways to draw, but subjects, tributes to those who have passed, spiritual pieces, and quite honestly I think the possibilities are quite limitless. I want to use this gift God gave me to best way to honor Him and to serve his purpose! I'll give you my website if you are interested ; )
Now you are probably wondering who or what I am looking for! Well I am looking to start as friends first and see where it goes. I am marriage minded so I don't date just because I want to nor am I trying to just have fun time as most guys would try. I'm intentional about it and to get to know you. I don't have a demand list for you as I read on so many ladies profiles (lol) but sometimes you just know if it clicks or not! I'm not looking for a unicorn. I just hope and wish you could be yourself because I can promise that I will be my true self as well!
I am looking for a woman who puts God first in her life. One other quality that both men and women overlook is inquisitiveness. If a guy never asked you questions, would you want to stick around him for very long? I believe that process that develops into intimacy is found on the notion of to know and to be known. Questions are the life blood of a conversation! My question box does run out if questions are not reciprocated and might start feeling like an interrogation :)
I am a virgin and plan to stay that way until I get married. I don't expect you to be one but I do want for both of us to respect those boundaries. I believe that it is a wise decision and also believe that God's word says it not as a suggestion but for everybody's protection. I want to display the kind of integrity and character that I wish to find in a man that one day may court my future daughter. There is a notion that "the nice guys lose" may be true with most of the world. I still know that God always has the right plan for our life if we continually trust Him and the eternal reward for following out that calling (single or married status) will be much more worth than those plans we force on our own will.
I am not looking for the perfect wife. Nobody is perfect! If you are looking for a long lasting relationship and are marriage minded you may have stumbled on the right profile ;) If anything I said sparks an interest, let me know by sending a small message!
- First Date
- I'll think of something.
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