Male | 55
United States
Simi Valley
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Looking For
A Long Term Relationship
Church Name
St. Mary Margaret Alacoque
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
Do you drink?
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Do you have children?
Yes but they're grown
Do you want children?
Does Not Want Children
Education Level
Some College
My Profession
Network field technician/ Self-employed
Coffee, Breakfast for dinner, Motorcycles, Diners, Ethnic foods, Road trips, Philosophy, Hiking, Camping, Billiards, St Thomas Aquinas, Little chocolate donuts, Guinness Stout, Spicy foods, Stiletto pumps, Stargazing, You
About Me
The more you get to know me, the more you will like me.

Shameless Self-Promotion:

I love to laugh. I like simple pleasures and real people.

I could climb a mountain or stay up all night doing a marathon of our favorite series. I dabble with baking. I like to read. I love talking. I'm learning to listen more.


Mass every Sunday. I enjoy the Latin mass and Gregorian chant, but I'm not an elitist- I just like it. I'm trinitarian, a fan of Thomism, I read the Bible, and I'm open to persons of other brands of mainstream Christianity. I converted when I was 33 after being "born again" at 17. Long story.


I have a wide range of musical tastes. I can tolerate what I don't love. Many of my favorite artists are more obscure (X, The The, Stan Ridgeway, Tom Waits, They Might Be Giants, Soul Coughing), but I'm also a fan of more familiar bands (Foo Fighters, Coldplay, Queens of the Stone Age, The Cure, and so much more). I also like bluegrass, newgrass, jazz trios, old school country, '80s, '90s, etc. I'm still about 6% punk.

Fun Facts:

Occasionally, a line or idea for a Haiku or other poem awakens me from sleep, and I will bang it out on my phone- completed- and I go back to sleep. I would love to share some of them with you.

I prefer to not even kill bugs unnecessarily, and I will gladly relocate spiders.

I know of a secret waterfall in the Angeles National Forest. I'm willing to bet that nobody else knows about it.

I have perfect pitch, serious reflexes, and I'm quick-wittted, yet I still can't tell a joke without messing it up.

I'm an ENTP. The "N" is for iNtuition, and I have a lot of it. Knowing your MBTI is alluring to me- it's up there with high-heeled boots.

If you're still reading...

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I'm flexible. I'm thinking about some local food, some coffee to go, and exploring nearby with rocket packs.

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