Birdsbirdsbirds

Quality time is super important

Gender
Male | 31
Country
United States
City
Chicago
State
Illinois
Height
6'1"
Last Login Date
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Age
31
Eye Color
Hazel
Body Type
A Few Extra Pounds
Hair Color
Brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Denomination
Non-Denominational
Looking For
A Long Term Relationship
Church Name
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Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
Non-denominational
Do you drink?
No
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
No way
Marital Status
Single
Do you have children?
No
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
Education Level
Some College
My Profession
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Interests
Computers, swimming, parakeets
About Me
If you send me a wink or something, be prepared to tell me very specifically why. I think you should have a reason for it. :)

Ideally, I would like to meet someone locally. I've tried long distance, and it just didn't work for me.

In simple terms, I'd say I'm fairly traditional and I am interested in seeing that in a potential future spouse. Not traditional in terms of hymns and stuff, but moreso certain values. I also would much prefer an introvert that doesn't need to go out often, but still is willing to here and there.

I do not regularly drink alcohol. I'm not interested in bars or partying. I don't smoke anything either. I may look into taking CBD oil as a supplement, but I'm very reluctant to take anything like this. I'd prefer the same in my partner.

I think men should be the leader of the household, but that doesn't mean that there's no input or say from his wife. I also am not very interested in someone that has many guy friends... I've had some bad experiences, and I just don't want to be second guessing all the time again. It's also, for what it's worth, how affairs can start... Being too close with a friend or someone from work, and ending up in certain situations alone.

I'm really only looking for someone of a similar denomination. It's important that we are united on this, since it'll make life easier. Things like where we go to church, how our kids will get answers about various things from us, etc.

I like nice people. I generally dislike sarcasm, because many people use it to put others down or to alienate them. It's also one of the biggest predictors of divorce - according to a well-known psychological researcher named John Gottman.

I am a homebody. I have pet parakeets, and they're pretty cute. I'm trying to challenge myself to be more and try more things, but I'm still an introvert that needs to recharge my social batteries at some point.

I work a full-time job, but it's not what I want to do forever, and it does not pay enough. I probably want to do something with computers, but it's something that I have to continue to explore more. I also still need to fast and pray more over it.

As I mentioned above, I do not have a career. As a man, I feel it would be irresponsible for me to really get seriously involved at this age when I can't really provide. I would love to have a relationship, and even marriage, but I need to know that I can provide.

Outside of finances, I also want to be very sure of who I may date. I don't want to date to get to know someone. As much as possible, I would like to avoid leading someone on. I'd like to avoid hurting someone. I think the worldly idea of dating isn't very good for Christians... Something more like friends for a while first, and then courtship seems like the better and more innocent approach.

In terms of love languages, quality time is probably my top love language. I do like some alone time with friends or to spend on some hobby or silly timewaster, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't mind company either. I just want to be able to continue to live my life and enjoy some hobbies.

I've found that the level of quality time that I desire does not seem common. For many people, one date a week would be enough. I would want several dates a week ideally, if possible... Texting here and there throughout the day when possible, calling at night, etc.

To be clear about the above paragraph though - I don't want irrational clingy... I value quality time, but I also want to be with someone that understands that things come up and I can't always quickly reply.

I also want to make it clear by saying it again that I am not in a hurry to meet someone. I am on here because I would like to meet someone eventually, but I want to take my time and get to know someone first. Consistency is good. People spend time on what is important to them... So if you're interested, show it with your actions.
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