livingman

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Gender
Male | 58
Country
United States
City
Clearwater
State
Florida
Height
5'7"
Last Login Date
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Age
58
Eye Color
Hazel
Body Type
Muscular
Hair Color
Brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Denomination
Presbyterian Church in America — See "About Me" below ↓
Looking For
A Marriage Partner
Church Name
In Clearwater, visiting churches
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
Non-denominational
Do you drink?
No
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
Sure, why not
Marital Status
Divorced
Do you have children?
Yes but they're grown
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
Education Level
4 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Chief Ninja, Farfugnügun-Lewith
Interests
Travel/w a purpose, history, the outdoors (mountains, beaches), health, science (all flavors), the Just-Us System, opps, I mean the Justice System (juris), philosophy, writing, technology
About Me
[Presbyterian Church In America] → https://pcanet.org/
"Faithful to the Scriptures, True to the Reformed Faith, and Obedient to the Great Commission."

I like the liturgy of Presbyterian Church In America. Although, I'm open to other fellowships, depending on where a partner and I may "land"

· · · PHOTOS · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · · ·

White T-shirt (2021)
Ambient sunlight, no filters, mobile-phone camera
At bay window (click) ... deck doors (click) — 2 minutes, 2 photos

Other photos (2020 and prior)

· · · IMPORTANT ASPECTS OF LIFE AND ME · · · · · · · · · · · ·

——— Spiritual ———

Christ-follower

I see the world thru a lens of grace, love, forgiveness, calmness, mercy, patience ...

At the same time, for any of us, in any circumstance in which we hold the Power to prevent injury, loss or harm; the Law's of Nature, and Nature's God (U.S. Declaration of Independence) require us to act accordingly


——— Relationship/w Money ———

Balanced

No obsessions

No insecurities needing filled/w the →status← of possessions

I prefer NOT being sought as a Success Object —— as I am not seeking you as a Se·x Object


——— Emotionally Present / Available ———

Courage to share myself at a level of substance

Not avoidant — nor an enigma you must pry open

If a partner has injuries interfering/w her ability to share her authentic self/w me, it's not a big deal; presuming she's aware, willing and working toward the healthy self she envisions for herself (she would have my support and comfort). In my experience, EVERYONE has unresolved injuries that MAY directly influence the flow, atmosphere, and longevity of a relationship, WHICH, those in the relationship are able to alter (for good), if they're open to learning about the other

No mixed messages / ambivalence / commitment fears


——— Communication ———

How we feel about Ourselves
How we feel about One Another
How we feel physically — emotional state can influnce the physical (muscle tension, headache, stomach pain, GI, lower-back)
Able to talk about the relationship, to keep it flourishing
Se·x
Dreams / Desires
Money
Offspring
Household
Lifestyle
Able to talk about the relationship, to keep it flourishing


——— Relationship/w Social Media ———

I have accounts, but use them sparingly for communication (not identity, nor approval)


——— Able to Trust ———

Willing to give my trust to a partner


——— Relationship/w Adult Children as it Relates to Partner ———

No enmeshments

Nothing to come between me and a potential mate, except me defending OUR SHORES (if I don't protect our shores, I probably won't have a mate)

The Divine
· · Protecting our shores (mate, offspring, family, community)
· · · · Mate
· · · · · · Offspring


——— Things I Value, Desire and Offer ———

Genuine friendship
Companionship
Intimacy ... 2 individuals who genuinely KNOW one another, NOT coitus (part of "Erotic love", below ↓)

Possibly, further down the path:
• Deeper trust
• Closer-emotional bond
• Romantic interplay ...
· · ... An unfolding ...
· · · · ... fun ...
· · · · · · ... Ox·y-tö-cin intoxication [A.K.A. the "love" hormone]
• Erotic love and expression

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My approach is relaxed, warm, open-handed, secure. I'm in the game with no aim to control, no erroneous expectations, other than to meet, discover, enjoy — and appreciate — the individual behind the eyes

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My search is for a →peer← (adult age irrelevant); a woman as zealous as me to create something warm, close, satisfying (something everyone deserves)

I'm only interested in those who were →born← female

"Doesn't drink" [my profile, above ↑]: is about health (not abstinence). An individual's reasonable consumption is of no concern to me, likewise for Cannabinoids

My relationship with time → I (work to live) NOT <live to work>

Regular activity and fresh air. Prefer activities/w a purpose (walking, hiking, water) vs. "the gym"

I know —HOW— to touch (finesse). Non-Se·xual touch (nurture). M·a·s·s·a·g·e (feet, lumbar, trap·ezius, neck, scalp), my hands, able to make you pur, while I turn your muscles into butter

I don't expect one person to meet all my needs. Seems only healthy each have a life outside of "us", but also together/w his/her friends, other couples, maybe volunteering in an area of need

I've enjoyed a few Super-Bowl Sunday's, but don't "follow" sports. Overall, I don't spend a lot of time in front of a TV

While eating dinner, I do enjoy watching NetFlix and PBS series

There's more to know, but talking face-to-face is the aim
First Date
Public venue, walk in the park or along the beach, to be in an open-relaxed atmosphere to talk.
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