DaveDear
Faith (Yes!), Hope (Working on it), Love (No doubt and seeking.)
- Gender
- Male | 68
- Country
- United States
- City
- MESICK
- State
- Michigan
- Height
- 5'8"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 68
- Eye Color
- Hazel
- Body Type
- Big Guy
- Hair Color
- Mixed Color
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Non-Denominational
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Calvary
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Non-denominational
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Possibly, who knows
- Marital Status
- Widowed
- Do you have children?
- Yes but they're grown
- Do you want children?
- Does Not Want Children
- Education Level
- Specialty/Trade School
- My Profession
- Retired - Video Production
- Interests
- Heart-to-heart, peace and joy at home, plus in loving fellowship. Quiet woods. Awe of creation. Sailing, music, garden, cooking.
- About Me
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I appreciate that you're visiting my profile. Feel free to ask questions. Please *do* send at least a short message if you have any level of interest. How will I know otherwise? :-)
I reside somewhat north of Arcadia, and south of Frankfort, in NW lower Michigan, but I got so many long-distance search results that I centered my search a bit to the east. I live near the coast where a lot of others go to vacation! (Most people this site shows live far from me.)
In a relationship, I hope to see this progression: respect, trust, safety, acceptance, honor, gratefulness, caring, giving, healing, comfort, tenderness, cherishing, commitment, and passion.
Education: Lessons are everywhere. My father’s father was an electrical engineer. My first word was ‘ight’, missing the ‘L’. I loved to be held up to a wall switch, flip it up and down, and see the light across the room going on and off. Growing up, I did well in most academic subjects while leaning toward STEM. Years later, I began an EE degree from Carnegie-Mellon in Pittsburgh, PA, where my grandfather got his first college degree.
My family of origin had its problems, as many do, and I began looking for something beyond myself for ‘life’ and deeper satisfaction. My customary church taught that we relate to God through ‘liturgy’. They also taught some Bible and church history. While some people think and feel very differently from me, I did not see past religious conflict and personal sacrifice centering around liturgy, rather a culture clash as seen today, based on strongly held beliefs. So I sought and found (or was given) a deeper Biblical faith. I have gone through some personal trials, and that faith has matured, not waned. Some simple matters of my Christian faith are a part of my inner and outer daily life.
I hope always to be observant and learning. I changed educational courses and followed Biblical studies. ‘Adventures’ began, melding engineering talent and ‘missionary’ interests. For about five years, my first wife and I, and eventually three sons, lived along the northern border of Israel; I traveled almost daily in southern Lebanon for work.
I also worked for many years as a television ‘technician’ of several specialties. I’ve worked with people from all over the world, many cultures and languages, some of the people so excellent and motivated to see our world closer to an actual state of freedom and peacefulness. I have quite a few experiences I could relate.
My first marriage had many issues, and despite the priority I gave marriage, through self-discovery and some counseling, I decided there are worse things than divorce. As a part of my processing this, I wrote a personal journey document to which I can provide a link, if you wish.
The relationship that later became my second marriage was ‘grace and mercy’ at work. We fit well and loved each other with great depth. Cancer and complications took that from us after 21+ years.
I was somewhat introverted in my formative years, but in a few situations and in the company of certain wonderful people, I am more lively. I *thrive* on close, personal connection. I can be an open book – if you don’t want to know, don’t turn that page!
I like both to be a satisfied home-body and to be out-and-about at times, but the last several years have not been what I was hoping them to be. I have a new nutrition and fitness plan that works and am becoming more healthful. I hope to find someone with whom I share common ground, and where each of our differences, strengths, and needs will weave well with the other - a catalyst for motion, growth-development, and joy in our lives.
Coastal, rural Michigan is great. Want to see? Search for Arcadia Bluffs Sunset Camera. If poor weather or dark, search Arcadia Michigan: 6 Best Things on YouTube.
I am grateful for life and it's gifts. Numbers 6:24-26
- First Date
- Any venue that allows us to begin to know each other with little distraction - a walk in nature, seated around a small fire, sipping something comforting, honest with ourselves and each other, open and listening, finding where we overlap, where our strengths compliment and help each other, comfort where needed, generous in spirit, seeing if we might find love in each other.
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