DaveDear

Faith (Yes!), Hope (Working on it), Love (No doubt and seeking.)

Gender
Male | 67
Country
United States
City
MESICK
State
Michigan
Height
5'8"
Last Login Date
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Age
67
Eye Color
Hazel
Body Type
Big Guy
Hair Color
Mixed Color
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Denomination
Non-Denominational
Looking For
A Marriage Partner
Church Name
Calvary
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
Non-denominational
Do you drink?
No
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Widowed
Do you have children?
Yes but they're grown
Do you want children?
Does Not Want Children
Education Level
Specialty/Trade School
My Profession
Retired - Video Production
Interests
Heart-to-heart, peace and joy at home, plus in loving fellowship. Quiet woods. Awe of creation. Sailing, music, garden, cooking.
About Me
Note! I reside near the ‘Arcadia Dunes Preserve’ (map search please) on NW lower Michigan's coast, but I got too many search results from Wisconsin, so I re-centered my search to the east at Mesick.

I live where a lot of others go to vacation! As a result, most people Match shows live far from me.

I appreciate that you're visiting my profile. *Feel free to ply me with questions exploring the nuances of whatever may be important to you* – and perhaps answering those questions about yourself for me?

In a relationship, I hope to see this progression: respect, trust, safety, acceptance, honor, gratefulness, caring, giving, healing, comfort, tenderness, cherishing, commitment, and passion.

Education: Lessons are everywhere. My father’s father was an electrical engineer. My first word was ‘ight’, missing the ‘L’. I loved to be held up to a wall switch, flip it up and down, and see the light across the room going on and off. Growing up, I did well in most academic subjects while leaning toward STEM. Years later, I began an EE degree from Carnegie-Mellon in Pittsburgh, PA, where my grandfather got his first college degree.

My family of origin had its problems, as many do, and I began looking for something beyond myself for ‘life’ and deeper satisfaction. My customary church taught that we relate to God through ‘liturgy’. They also taught some Bible and church history. While some people think and feel very differently from me, I did not see past religious conflict and personal sacrifice centering around liturgy, rather a culture clash as seen today, based on strongly held beliefs. So I sought and found (or was given) a deeper Biblical faith. I have gone through some personal trials, and that faith has matured, not waned. Some simple matters of my Christian faith are a part of my inner and outer daily life.

I hope always to be observant and learning. I changed educational courses and followed Biblical studies. ‘Adventures’ began, melding engineering talent and ‘missionary’ interests. For about five years, my first wife and I, and eventually three sons, lived along the northern border of Israel; I traveled almost daily in southern Lebanon for work.

I also worked for many years as a television ‘technician’ of several specialties. I’ve worked with people from all over the world, many cultures and languages, some of the people so excellent and motivated to see our world closer to an actual state of freedom and peacefulness. I have quite a few experiences I could relate.

My first marriage had many issues, and despite the priority I gave marriage, through self-discovery and some counseling, I decided there are worse things than divorce. As a part of my processing this, I wrote a personal journey document to which I can provide a link, if you wish.

The relationship that later became my second marriage was ‘grace and mercy’ at work. We fit well and loved each other with great depth. Cancer and complications took that from us after 21+ years.

I was somewhat introverted in my formative years, but in a few situations and in the company of certain wonderful people, I am more lively. I *thrive* on close, personal connection. I can be an open book – if you don’t want to know, don’t turn that page!

I like both to be a satisfied home-body and to be out-and-about at times, but the last several years have not been what I was hoping them to be. I became overweight, but I'm working toward being more healthful. I hope to find someone with whom I share common ground, and where each of our differences, strengths, and needs will weave well with the other - a catalyst for motion, growth-development, and joy in our lives.

What do my friends think of me? I have a couple of friends with whom you might communicate!

Coastal, rural Michigan is great. Want to see? Search for Arcadia Bluffs Sunset Camera. If poor weather or dark, search Arcadia Michigan: 6 Best Things on YouTube.

I am grateful for life and it's gifts. Numbers 6:24-26
First Date
Any venue that allows us to begin to know each other with little distraction - a walk in nature, seated around a small fire, sipping something comforting, honest with ourselves and each other, open and listening, finding where we overlap, where our strengths compliment and help each other, comfort where needed, generous in spirit, seeing if we might find love in each other.
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