TheHopeofRohan
Christian Man Ready to find his Wife
- Gender
- Male | 40
- Country
- United States
- City
- Foxborough
- State
- Massachusetts
- Height
- 5'11"
- Last Login Date
- Click here to learn more
- Age
- 40
- Eye Color
- Blue
- Body Type
- Athletic
- Hair Color
- Brown
- Ethnicity
- Caucasian
- Denomination
- Baptist
- Looking For
- A Marriage Partner
- Church Name
- Emanual Baptist
- Church Attendance
- Every week
- Church Raised In
- Baptist
- Do you drink?
- No
- Smoker
- No
- Willing to relocate?
- Sure, why not
- Marital Status
- Single
- Do you have children?
- No
- Do you want children?
- Want Children
- Education Level
- 4 Yr College Degree
- My Profession
- Information Tech
- Interests
- Working out, hiking, skiing, Romance, Adventuring, camping but also relaxing watching a show or playing video games with friends.
- About Me
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I want to start out by saying that I am by no means a perfect man, a very flawed one actually, but though Jesus, I have been saved though grace and I can live at peace knowing that fact. Whenever i come across an issue in life, i cross reference it with what the Bible has to say about it, that including politics as well, because Satan uses things you would think have no place in the Chrisian world that Christians should be more active about.
About me, i grew up in a Christain home all my life, was not a perfect home as my mother was unfortunately a drug addict and it ended up taking her life by the time I was 15 years old. My father on the other hand was a very stable man, and a very strong Christian, who has been a huge influence on me as I've continued my journey of life. Even now I still look to him on how I am going to move forward raising my own family someday and what it means to be a Man of God. I have grown up in the church and actively taken part of church worship teams my entire life playing Guitar, piano, base, and drums as well as leading worship before. I am currently trying to get back to leading worship again down the road 😁
I was married, but i am now divorced since 2023, probably one of the sadder parts of my life, but as it goes God is good and all I can do is move forward in life. I am more than willing to talking about this as it is my past and i know if i was a single girl i would want to know more about it, but if your curious I'll def go into detail. If you are one of those women who will immediately dismiss me, thats okay you are free to choose that way, but remember, God redeemed Rehab the prostitute, and she was even included in the Lineage of Jesus. I used to think the same way about women who were not virgins, but if Jesus has forgiven and made new, then why cant i accept such?
Overall I would not be on here if i was not ready to date again. Just to be clear s well, i am not someone who believes in divorce in general, so it was not an easy decision to make.
As for my personality, I am a very talkative person and can probably talk your head off lol, part of me was thinking about changing up my career to have a job more centered around personality than tasks to be done lol, I do like to joke alot, i can have a dark sense of humor, but i would like to think that i know when to slip a perfectly timed joke in 😅
My love languages are Physical touch, Words of affirmation and Time of closeness, i would say to a degree am the other 2 languages as well... but i am soooo bad at buying people gifts if i would not like them myself lol
When it comes to my love life, i try to make sure i do not get attached to quickly and or make the woman i am talking to feel to attached unless i know i want her. But when i am in love, i am very loyal. When i love, i love hard.... if you get the idea... but now that i type that... all humans are like that, i guess you could say i am very passionate when the time is right lol I can be a very good flirt but i try to dial it back as i dont enjoy breaking anybody heart, but you'll know when I'm into you if your who i am going after 😉, when i think i am into someone, I am intense.
So about the type of woman I am into.
I am very attracted to a woman who takes care of her body, puts effort into being physically fit and knows how to show herself off. I know there are some women who will get offended in reading that, but you know what the difference is between a friend and a possible love interest to a man looking for a relationship? her sex appeal. So if your thin and take care of your self physically, you have my attention because at the end of the day that is how God made us. Men are attracted to beautiful women, not saying everyman is the same in what they look for, but if your the type of women that thinks you can get a man aroused because of your personality? Thats not happening with me. If i am not feeling it when i see you, then its probably not going to happen no matter how well i know you. So at the end of the day, i am looking for a women who will want to take care of her body along with me. I also love a women with long hair, there is something so elegant and sexy about long hair that always draws me in. For those of you women who read this and think I'm shallow because of proverbs talking about how beauty is fading, your not wrong, but there has to be attraction or i would just get with any women with a good personality, babies do need to get made at some point, and i have to kinda be aroused to do that.... God gave men a sex drive, but most men become slaves to their own desires, I have used my sex drive to make me a man worth wanting, building myself up in my career and being physically fit, understanding wisdom, so i will choose who i want to choose. When i do find the one im attracted to, i plan to grow old with her, and be committed 100% (just needed to get that out of the way as 90% of women i have talked to beat me over the head with that line as if i dont know that beatufy fades 🙄)
As for eyes, if i happen to fall for her, her eyes will become special because they are the windows to the soul and it will reflect who she is when i look into them. I think i would like a girl with a bubbly personality... but God knows best so ill leave that stuff up to him, and last i want her to take serious the ways of God and have that relationship with him just as I have. Making sure that both parties in the marriage are on the same page is huge when it comes to raising children. Having those same values is very important for any relationship to flourish.
favorite bible verse Psalms 37:4-5 "Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart, commit your way to the Lord trust him and he will do this" one of my greatest desires is to find my women and live out song of songs with her, learning to grow in our love and become that union that God sees as perfect love. Having the Greek love agape, along with eros....
Bottom line, I am man who is going to be committed, and treat you as Christ treats the Chruch. That is my hearts desire as stated in Psalms 37.
If i do message you first, I do consider you someone that i think i might want to chase, I am friendly so i do tend to respond to messages, but if you have very few pictures on your profile, or make it hard to see you.... no that i am not going to try and pursue you unless I do think you are beautiful to me, I dont like the idea of talking to someone with no profile pictures, getting along with them, and then finally seeing her and i have to let her down that i am not interested, i dont like doing that, every women has beauty in their own way, and it hurts to hear. God has made everybody attracted to different things, so if you encounter rejection, think of it as God guiding you to the right one, that what i have to remember when I get ghosted Quite frequently 😅
- First Date
- I would not want to do anything fancy, just to go out and have coffee or a walk in the park or beach, and get to understand who you are with simple conversation. Not going all out for someone I am just meeting lol if your the one then we will have a life time of dates hopefully 😋
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