Author	Thread: This site is nothing but one big scam
MorganEugeneTackett View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 21 Feb, 2026 08:05 AM I’m being serious. Almost every single message I get is from a scammer. It’s only now that I call it out I seem to get messages from actual women. But I can only send a set number of messages before it tells me I need to upgrade. On top of that now you can only look at a certain number of profiles before it tells you to upgrade. I know the people or person running this site probably needs money, but my gosh, if they’re that down on cash they ought to go get some good paying jobs and stop forcing people to pay to find love. That’s something I hate about every single dating site. You have to pay to find love. People when I find love I’m going to be paying to please her, not some greedy individuals running a dating site. If I get banned for calling this out so be it. I’m not going to sit by let myself or watch anyone get taken. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 21 Feb, 2026 08:56 AM Yep! It's worse all the time. The new daily limit appears to be two messages for non-paying members. One can write one two messages. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 21 Feb, 2026 09:21 AM Someone used the word "disingenuous". It is disingenuous to name a site "Christian Dating FOR FREE" when there is hardly anything free. So, the new name should be "Christian Dating For FEE". Very little is free here anymore. But one is FREE to use these forums and to write imbittered old ladies here and imbittered guys. Not much activity here, except from us old folks. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 21 Feb, 2026 09:23 AM Yet here we are anyway. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 21 Feb, 2026 11:34 AM Online dating is big business. That is for phone based dating apps and not computer based ones. I imagine it's very tough for CDFFEE to make any money but they're shooting themselves in the foot by doing things the way they have been doing them. First off they made the decision long ago not to improve the site in any way that helped it's members whether they were paying ones or not. The only improvements they have tried to make were to their bottom line by taking away what was once free and putting it behind a pay wall. But in doing so they have only removed reasons for ordinary people to join or stay active that in turn lowered their profits so to make up for it they have sold their souls to the scammer community. It hasn't escaped my notice that if I respond to what is obviously a scammers brain dead message with an insult. I get 5 more scammers within a few hours trying their luck with me. All of which also get there own insults from me before they give up. All of them are elevate members which is proof that scammers are now their bread and butter. Had CDFFEE made smart improvements to the site especially in the forums and stayed CDFF then it's likely it would have been more viable but now even with the scammer revenue this place is on it's least legs and as soon as the scammers find out there's not enough people here to scam they will also leave and at that point the site will shut down. I suspect we're pretty close to that already and what we are seeing is their last desperate attempts to remain afloat. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 23 Feb, 2026 07:35 AM There are some sites that are still free, but I don't know that they are better than CDFF. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 23 Feb, 2026 01:11 PM "Seek and ye will find." There are free places you may want to try, but I don't know that you would do any better at them. I have been on other sites, and they are not better than cdff. However, some places are still free. But no place is perfect. They seem all pretty much the same. Anyway, there are a few places out there that are free. But I don't think it is appropriate for me to list them as we are here. But seek and ye shall find. I think it is better to just find a girl in church. Post Reply
Handyman62 View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 23 Feb, 2026 04:09 PM I think if there's anyone who benefits from any site it would be women because all a woman has to do is put up a profile and claim to be a woman. She doesn't even have to put up a picture or fill put her profile and she will still be inundated with mostly desperate men that just bulk message as many women as they can as often as they can hoping for a response.  It's very short sighted for men to message a woman just because she happens to have lady parts. All that has done is caused women to develop an ego that's out of this world. Some women already had an over the top view of themselves but now even the really unattractive women think they're 10s and qualify for a top tier man.   It completely destroyed women's humility and their respect for men. No longer are average men good enough for them which is partly due to the amount of online attention they receive. The rest of it is due to the access they have to the more wealthy and famous people who also message them.   Unfortunately because the upper crust men give them attention and oftentimes will bed many of them they think that's the kind of man they deserve to marry. But in almost every case all they were was just a "good time" and nothing more. For women though that doesn't matter because they lack the ability to understand that not all attention from a man is good attention and certain kinds actually lower a woman's value.     Despite what I said at the beginning of this rant nobody actually benefits from dating sites or dating in general anymore. Good men are disrespected and ignored by women and if a good man happens to find a woman it's usually only for a short time before she leaves thinking the grass will be greener without him.   Men that came before us started this problem and men in between us didn't recognize the damage that was being done and most men today still don't see what and why things are as they are. The Church chose to ignore the problem and are now actively contributing to the problem as are most men out there and on this site that don't stand up to the feminist women who claim to follow scriptures and yet ignore what the scriptures actually say about their behaviors.   When a "Christian" man ignores the bad behaviors of women while claiming that's the Christian thing to do is a christian fool. As Christians if we are not supposed to police our own then who is? So if you have that mindset then you're turning the policing over to Satan and the example of how well that's working can easily be seen by how common the destruction of marriage and the family is by secular and "Christian" women and how readily accepted it is not only in the world but also in the Church. Post Reply
WatchtheStarswithme View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 24 Feb, 2026 11:37 PM Amen brother. I click on one message and it says upgrade, usually a promising sounding one. The pictures shown above constantly are a couple very abusive guys I blocked. Why blurr others yet show them? It makes everyone think I'm rude and uppity which I'm not. But I get enough insults why pay for them. Right now constantly above my message to your post are the two clear pictures of the creeps I blocked one of which said nobody would care about me and that I deserve any abuse. Nobody does. Especially if we're praying and trying our best. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 25 Feb, 2026 12:32 AM Block away! Needless for me to block you. But here you are writing, so I am exposed words of stench and hateful words anyway. Those that are blurred are not on the forums. Thus, your image is not blurred for us either though I wish it were, and I would not pay to unblur it. Good you feel loved by God, but you here say hateful words. Hateful words flow. You are not the standard for Christian love. Any man that quotes the Word of God here on some subjects is spoken down upon. Divorce is not love. Any man that speaks against divorce is chastised here. Anyone that uses scripture and speaks against divorce gets verbally whipped as you have just done. Anyone who uses scripture and speaks against marriage after divorce gets verbally whipped as you have just done. I have never visited your profile and verbally whipped you. But now you whip me. All have sinned and fall short of the righteousness of God. No one is righteous not even one. But whose words are we to live by? And who are we to please? We are to please our Maker and follow his words. Yet you want to insult me for being on this Christian site and for participating in the forums and the discussion room on a Christian site. God bless you. But you are in error. You are in error as a number are in error. I could point you to the scripture. But that is why you say venomous words because you'd rather no one point to the scripture. So, go ahead and discard those Bible verses that you are happiest to discard, then hate those that say the Bible verses you don't like the most. How great is your love? None of us attract any of us. Because we attract no one off-line, we come online. Then online, we attract no one either. So, whether we are off-line or online, we attract no one. Your words do not attract me, though before, I sympathized for your posts from reading your discouragement and reading your plight. Never have I written at your inbox, but I wrote you here and responded to your discouragement and tried to cheer you. Now you have abusive words for me just because one poisons these forums with rhetoric. So, neither of you welcome the scripture or the words of Christ on subjects that you do not welcome scripture. That is fine. That is the New Christianity. Discard the words of Christ and hate the messenger who sites the words of Christ. I think of the Bible as a relational guidebook to all relationships. I think we are to go to the Bible for answers. But now you hate those who would go to the Bible for an answer. Be it as it may, you are welcome on the site. Spread whatever spirit you like. But now you are not spreading love for Jesus' words. That is okay. Form a club of people who hate God's word. It has been done before and is being done now. Be blessed sister. But is there blessing in being away from the word of God? Some hope to get closer to God by reading the word of God. I don't know that you want that. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	This site is nothing but one big scam Posted : 25 Feb, 2026 12:33 AM Thanks for sharing your filth! Post Reply

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