Trust issues i'm sure many have them and it has been posted somewhere. My ex absolutely refused to trust me because of her cheating dad and her mom's brainwashing. After years of unfounded (delusional even) accusations and arguments, i gave her what she wanted in a roundabout way as i was not walking with the LORD then. Not sexually, but i made it look that way as i knew it would hurt her. She wanted to be verbally abusive, i begged her to stop and get help because i didn't want to play head games. Nope. Bark bark bark. So i hurt her back in a way that i knew she couldn't forgive. She did at first but that's another story.
I can imagine a couple of answers here to this 🙄, but ladies, how much nagging is too much? Can you admit if you did it? And men, how much do we acquiesce until we've said enough already? Am i to stay on the phone with her 24/7 to ease her mind? Of course not. We can only do so much. When the trust is gone so is the love. There is a whole lot more to this psychologically. It's okay to be a little jealous and we should be, but extremes need therapy. I refuse to continue to try to make someone happy who doesn't want to be. She was conceited, demanding, immature and insecure. Now i am not wholly in agreement with how a few believe women should submit 😬🤐, but it does come into play here. She does not rule the roost, we are a team. Controlling your husband can be weaponizing marriage, and it is explicitly warned against. It can go for the man too of course. "Husbands love your wives" ( only one of course 😉). I tried for 14 years. Who wants to love anyone who has to be heard (screaming like a little brat) but never listens? I stayed for a long time (too long) trying to be a good father figure to her son and a good husband but just was never good enough for her. Finally it came to a head. Where you at? Had this experience?
Not answering the topic but taking every opportunity to point to me . Seems you the one in error here as usual. Go get that husband. You should have some options by now in Your Country!
Better the corner of a roof. (Proverbs 21:9 and Proverbs 25:24)
Handyman, you write: " Society has been teaching women for years that it's men who are the problem and not them so blaming men is typically their go to excuse."
Reminds me of a t-shirt a woman wore to work. On it, it said:
