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MyPrince2023^ View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 13 Feb, 2023 10:49 PM I had a debate with a Christian sister who contended very strongly (with Bible citations) that it would be "WRONG" for a woman to boldly approach guys on a dating platform like CDFF. I disagreed, vehemently reasoning that in this 21st century world, it doesn't matter who makes the first move. Therefore, it is RIGHT for a woman who likes a guy to tell him so - verbally or in writing (not just with mystical clues). Why should the man be saddled with the heavy burden of unraveling the intricate web of a woman's complex mind, especially on a digital dating platform. Can I get some supportive ladies on my side on this? Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 3 Mar, 2023 05:00 AM That special someone maybe on Ehormony. 😂 Post Reply
Charmingbaby View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 3 Mar, 2023 10:59 AM My Prince2023, thanks for your elaborate and detailed reply. Yes I do reconfirm that I agree with you that its okay for any woman to approach any man that she likes and yes we are in the 21st centaury of freedom and equality. I would like to reply to your comment "I'm yet to encounter a woman who desires to be a mans easy prey" hehehe this is interesting. I would like to say any woman who says she is looking for a date or who is on this site for a date or long term relationship is already an easy prey (set and ready to hit it up with the guy who is ready for the same kind of relationship or a guy who simply impresses her) well I don't know what a woman should do to show she is an easy prey lol may be you could elaborate more on what it means to be any easy prey according to a guy lol I enjoyed hearing that you and the men do enjoy it when a woman approaches you first and according to you her value shoots up... It feels good to learn what you guys experience when we make the first move...My biggest fear or concern would be so what happens in the case that the feelings are not mutual? eg I approach u but unfortunately you don't feel the same way as I do? Lastly I do agree with you when u hinted on the effects of religious and theological difference on a relationship. It was great hearing your experiences on this very vital subject. I have experienced this but in a different way...My problem has been meeting a guy who claims to be a believer and then he starts the conversation and only before you know it...he is no where near to a Christian from his conversations and actions...not that am judging any one. Finally its a pleasure meeting you here, I always enjoy reading your elaborate and detailed posts. Post Reply
WalkNTalk View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 3 Apr, 2023 06:05 AM In the Bible, some women made the first move. Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 3 Apr, 2023 11:49 PM I think it’s up to the individual woman to decide if she wants to make the first move or not. I don’t initiate contact because most men don’t like it, and it goes against the natural of things…:-) Post Reply
Jayzeee View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 3 Apr, 2023 11:57 PM * natural order of things * Post Reply

Early16 View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 7 Apr, 2023 09:05 PM When we are interested to a guy I could agree that it's Ok to make the first move. It doesn't matter especially in digital world. However, in physical dating it would be hard since it's not good to be rejected. Post Reply
HazelEyesSparkle View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 13 Jul, 2023 08:19 PM I know what they say, that's it's the new age and women can do anything too but I find it always ends up weird if a woman asks a guy out. Men assume that you automatically want a physical relationship with them. I'm going to say that men should still be the ones to chase and pursue. Women like men who act like men and are courageous and gentlemanly enough to ask the woman out. Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 14 Jul, 2023 07:58 AM Most men don't have to Chase women these days, for Decades now. Plenty of women approach me they interested in . Many don't date off the internet. Many older Women "desperate" to marry oftentimes get rejected. Younger ones too! Fyi Post Reply
Moonlight7 View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 14 Jul, 2023 07:59 AM " Men " they interested in " edited Post Reply
thatguy93a^ View Profile History	I Think it is OK for a Woman/Lady/Girl to Make the First Move - Right? Posted : 14 Jul, 2023 11:18 AM “Plenty of women approach men they interested in “ That might be true for older women but not for younger. Just about anyone under 30-35ish are scared to spoken to and to paranoid approach someone. Post Reply