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We Are Created for His Glory, not ours
Only the LORD can give an understanding wife Probv 19:14

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A Marriage Partner
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Korean Chinese Japanese Church
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Every week
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Southern Baptist
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No way
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Want Children
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My Profession
Professor and Preacher
reading bible daily, thinking of life and how wonderful everything is, surfing, hiking and exploring
About Me
im a preacher and technology expert and professor, I travel to Asia every year and have a online ministry to help those learn of Jesus and true relationships. Want marriage and a large family with lots of children (at least three more). Please dont contact me if you do not want children and please do not be fake or play games, Im too tender heart for games. My prior relationship was a master of deception and cheated on me and hurt me deeply. God has made me stronger and I only want the one God has for me and no other.

Some come to me in anger because I divorced my first wife. Actually, I divorced her because she had a secret lover, did not love Jesus and insulted me whenever I read bible and prayed with my children. She tried to stab me with a knife once, did horrible things to my children and many other things I will not mention. She is like a Boarderline Personality Disorder type. I strugled for years about being in such a unloving unloyal marriage, until God showed me, He himself divorced Israel and Judah!

"I gave faithless Israel her certificate of divorce and sent her away because of all her adulteries. Yet I saw that her unfaithful sister Judah had no fear; she also went out and committed adultery.". (Jeremiah 3:8)

God then showed me in a dream and told me He will bring me a loving partner that would be blessed. I did not seek God for my first partner, now I do.

I know some of you might be seeking a better life and jump to anyone, but please, keep God in your direction. I have prayed for many friends like that and they found great life partners that helped them. Nothing is impossible for my God, Jesus the King!

My life partner must be...

She must love God with Jesus, kind, gentle, long suffering, loving, supportive, loyal and truthful. A friend, life partner and my Cinderella.

I do not mind if she is a professional and enjoys her career, I can reduce my teaching at home and become Mr. Mom taking care of the home and children. I am a rare man to discover, I can cook, clean and love children very much. I really want to get back into doing Children Puppet Ministry, so do not worry if you have a great career and want to keep it. With God mixing between us, we can work it out.

I just want to be cuddled, loved, spoiled, trusted, loyal and full of God and Jesus between us.

In return, I will treasure her always and treat her the best I can.

God has blessed me greatly and He is very real. I am leaving my profile up so others can read my story and in hope they find wisdom in my words. Jesus (Yeshua) will return very soon, the record breaking signs are all around, historical floods, historical weather, historical wars, wickedness, over and over. However, those who love Christ are protected and will not be protected.

I love Jesus and will never be in a second marriage without someone that does not love Jesus equally and does not allow the man to lead the family. Yes, a woman runs the house and together we share the family to make it a happy Christian home. Thank you for spending the time reading my profile, I pray for you to find the partner God has for you and help God Kingdom with your marriage. Amen. :)


To sin means to fall short of God's holy standards. Sin is what ended paradise in the Garden of Eden. And all of us, like Adam and Eve, are sinners. For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God (Rom. 3:23). Sin separates us from a relationship with God (Isaiah 59:2) and it deceives us and makes us think that wrong is right and right is wrong (Prov. 14:12). Sin has terrible consequences, but God has provided a solution: For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our LordĀ (Rom. 6:23).

Jesus Christ, the Son of God, loved us so much that he left the riches of heaven to become a man and deliver us from our sin. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16). He came to identify with us in our humanity and our weakness, but he did so without being tainted by our sin, self-deception, and moral failings (Heb. 4:15-6). Jesus died on the cross as the only one worthy to pay the penalty for our sins demanded by the holiness of God: For our sake he [God] made him [Jesus] to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God (2 Cor. 5:21). But in victory over death, God raised Jesus from the grave, defeating the consequences of sin (1 Cor. 15:3-4, 54-57).
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As a Southern Gentleman i would treat her like Cinderella. Flowers, chocolate maybe a bike ride in a beautiful park.
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