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Looking For
A Friend
Church Name
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
No answer
Do you drink?
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Do you have children?
Yes but not living at home
Do you want children?
Does Not Want Children
Education Level
4 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Growing in Christ, Listening to music(mostly 80s), Nature photography, Hiking, Spending time with family/friend, trying new things, would like to travel.
About Me
Thanks for checking my profile and taking this opportunity to get to know me a little. God loves you and always wants the very best for you. It is my heartfelt hope that you know that and that keeping it in mind brings you comfort and joy as you look to Him for guidance in your search for...anything and everything : ) I love God and as often as I can I seek to grow in Christ. I'm learning to recognize the prompting of The Holy Spirit and realize not only the value of following it, but also the cost of ignoring it. I'm a work in progress and I've got a long way to go, but I take great comfort when I look back just long enough to see how far God has brought me. It excites me, then I look forward to continuing the journey, even when the road is rough.
Still with me? Honesty is important to me. Being honest with yourself is just about as important to me. If you can't be completely honest with yourself, how honest can you be with anyone else? I'm not saying you have to put everything on the table at once--I'd prefer you didn't(part of the intimacy of romance is the opportunity to discover things about that person ; ). I think getting to know as much as you can About a person runs block on the opportunity to get to Know a person. I'm just saying whatever you decide to share with me, be honest about that. I will honor you by doing the same for you.
If you're still reading, you must find something interesting about me. Ordinary but relevant stuff: I have a steady job, I have my own vehicle, I live in my own place(rent), I have no debt and I have a good credit score. I have four kids: three are grown/one lives with his mother. I see all of them as often as I can and none of them as often as I'd like. God provides for all my needs/sometimes a little more and always more than the saved sinner that I am deserves.
Since you've been gracious enough to read this much, I'll wrap it up. The bottom line is this:
I don't need anything. I am complete in Christ. My Heavenly Father is the source of all things and He is faithful to provide them. I know this to be true. God has given me an amazing heart and I want to share that and every part of my life with a woman who loves Nothing more than God and knows Him to be her loving Heavenly father, who also knows she is complete in Christ, and (if it is God's will and only with his blessing) wants to share her God-given amazing heart and every part of her life with me. I don't want to force a relationship. If we're not meant to be more than friends, that will become clear so long as we are honest with ourselves and with each other. I'm a hopeless romantic and I can't give my body without giving my heart, sex before we get married. You are a daughter of the most high God and I intend to honor you as such. It's not easy, but You are worth it...and so am I.
Update as of 2/4/2018: I am no longer seeking contact on this site and I'm trying to deactivate my account. It has been a good experience and I wish everyone well. Please do not send messages or try to contact me. Respectfully, PastTheEdges
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