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LookingForItAll

Not yet ready to give up

Gender
Male
Country
United States
City
Augusta
State
Maine
Height
5'10"
Last Login Date
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Age
59
Eye Color
Blue
Body Type
Muscular
Hair Color
Brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Denomination
Methodist
Looking For
Anything
Church Name
Lacking
Church Attendance
No answer
Church Raised In
No answer
Do you drink?
Socially
Smoker
No
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Divorced
Do you have children?
Yes but they're grown
Do you want children?
Undecided/Open
Education Level
4 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Something profitable and worth doing
Interests
About Me
I too introverted to wear my faith on my sleeve. Life in a predominantly unchurched world has taught me the value of patience and trying to live as a quiet example.

I'm also a relatively recent arrival in Maine -- recently enough that I still lack much in the way of local roots. And I have yet to find a local church that resonates with my soul. Recommendations are welcome, but please keep in mind that I'm averse to churches who don't bother to welcome visitors (proselytizing was a mandate from Jesus, every time I've looked) or who insist that their leadership is infallible.

Nor do I consider the prospect of meeting "lots of respectable single women" as compelling a reason to join a church as some silver-haired matriarchs seemed to expect me to. I'm too honest and ornery (in a Southern way) to worry about respectable, although I do try very hard to be respect-worthy (which is really closer to what church should be about).

I find it disconcerting that a Christian-focused social site lists "body type" more prominently than things like what you're looking for or the particulars of your faith, and won't take "Nunya" for an answer.

Also, I'm not a man who will thrive in a life of leisure. Given my druthers, I'll retire just in time for my funeral because I need my days to have purpose. I get a lot of satisfaction from doing my job well and, whenever the opportunities arise, helping the people around me. I'm happier being a contributor to than a consumer of the world around me.

More to follow (maybe)...
Or not. Unfortunately, in addition to there being very few profiles within realistic distance, the message numbers have been 3 to 1 against there even being a real person corresponding (never mind whether there is any common interest). So I may check back from time to time, but otherwise I have healthier things to do with my time.
First Date
Maybe it would be a first date, or maybe it would be the first meeting of new friends. Either would be better than neither.

And I prefer doing something low-key and fun, where what we're doing could help to keep the conversation going. I feel very self-conscious playing "20 Questions" over wine or coffee, and I suspect most of y'all do as well, but add a deck of cards (and some poker trash-talking) and the smiles and conversation both come a lot more naturally. Heck, even folding laundry could be more relaxing than unblinking interrogation. But that's me, and I'm only half of any prospective conversation.
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