Are you a "late bloomer"? Has life kept you busy perhaps at a scrafice to your true self?

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United States
La Habra
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Eye Color
Body Type
Big Guy
Hair Color
Looking For
A Marriage Partner
Church Name
Church Project / One & All
Church Attendance
Every week
Church Raised In
Do you drink?
1 or 2 on occasion
Willing to relocate?
Possibly, who knows
Marital Status
Do you have children?
Do you want children?
Want Children
Education Level
4 Yr College Degree
My Profession
Engineering / Business Oversight
Serving/helping Others, Animals, cars, beach, mountains, etc.
About Me
Many times in life we have opportunities opened to us. At other times they're taken away, sometimes without our input or ability to choose for ourselves. And sometimes we miss the bus altogether!!! This is my attempt to change that.
** Most of the pictures were taken during a trip in Thailand and show me before any weight loss.**

Hi, my name is Coleman, but most call me by a nickname I've had since I was 60 seconds old.

I am a humble guy looking for a serious relationship that hopefully would lead to marriage.

Grew-up here in SoCal.
I'm about finished with the traffic, and exploring a more rural lifestyle. I have undertaken a journey to lose the weight I've carried most all of my life. I'm down @90 lbs from when these photos were taken, through working with a trainer and cardio.

Childhood was rough, I'm a better person for it although it did take me a long time to "adult" my broken parts. I guess better late than never ๐Ÿ˜ƒ. I'm not a saint, just a sinner without too many skeletons in his closet.

I am looking forward to what God has planned for me, and how my life will serve Him and others.

My friends say that I am: honest, kind, helpful, easygoing, friendly, confident, generous, gentle, smart, can repair just about anything. But they're my friends so perhaps a bit biased.....๐Ÿ˜

I've traveled extensively in the US and outside(Romania, Italy, Mexico, Panama, Costa Rica, Thailand, Cambodia) for service projects around the world, and with the exception of the jungles in Panama I would love go back to any of them. Heck, I'd probably go back there too with the right person. Or, anywhere else. ๐Ÿ˜ƒ

My ideal someone is: gentle (in spirit and nature), kind, humble, patient, believes in honesty, is affectionate, likes to touch and to be touched, and most importantly has a solid relationship with God, and salvation through Jesus Christ.

Someone who wants to try to have or adopt children.

Someone who believes in protecting the relationship and respecting each other even when we disagree, and are frustrated.

If you also had a rough start and have avoided intimacy and others knowing the true you as a result, but are wanting to learn together in an honest, gentle, respectful, loving environment I might be a good match for you.

I have hidden myself through busyness and business leadership for so long that no one had any idea who I really was.
I have worked through the pain and the shame and finally feel that I am able to enjoy my own life with a loving partner. I look forward to learning what love truly is, or can be.

Thanks for taking the time to read about me, I truly hope that you find the person of your dreams, and your love for each other is made priority daily.
First Date
Beyond coffee....
Movies, too clichรฉ
Love to admire nature and art, but that's probably not a first date...
I guess something stress-free: miniature golf, walk on the pier (Ruby's!!), art festival, +++
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