Author Thread: Does for better,.. for worse still exists
Therema^

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Does for better,.. for worse still exists
Posted : 12 Jan, 2022 09:30 AM

I have done a little research and found there are many divorces especially among the believers and ministers of the gospel

I'm sorry to those who have gone through this painful experience

I wonder is the vows made before the presence of God and the congregation means nothing nowadays?

Are we in the last days where the Bible says,pole will be lovers of their own self, unforgiving,truce breakers,false accusers etc ?...OR

Is a weapon the enemy is using to attack the Church...

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LittleDavid

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Posted : 12 Jan, 2022 10:11 AM

Excellent post‼️‼️

God uses marriage as a test of true love‼️

Nothing else much reveals a self-centered spirit than does marriage‼️

Satan turns tests into temptations to hate, get even and divorce AND to separate families.

Marriage partners who are now experiencing severe love tests need to do a serious self-examination. Perhaps your “love” has failed the test because it’s not patterned after God’s true love.

Recognizing that our love has failed is really an opportunity to depend solely upon God to enable—us who are weak lovers—to confess our lack of love as sin and to start loving the unlovable, ie your mates, the way God loves wicked people (we’re also wicked people)

I agree, in some really bad marriages, love is NOT AN EASY LIFT‼️‼️

I know personally how difficult it is to love some people. At the same time, I feel the conviction that my “love” isn’t God’s kind of love‼️‼️

The important take away gained from the “love” tests God allows in our lives—is the stark revelation that we do not love the way God loves!!

Time for self-examination and humble admission AND dependence on God to help us obey in our loves!!

True love doesn’t come easy—but it never fails‼️‼️



THANK YOU FOR YOUR EXCELLENT THREAD/POST AND YOUR OBSERVATION ‼️‼️‼️‼️

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Therema^

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Posted : 27 Jan, 2022 02:25 AM

Thanks little David.....I think it's a wake up call to pray for marriages

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Jayzeee

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Posted : 27 Jan, 2022 03:05 AM

Yes it does still exist. But we can’t be naive and assume that being a Christian makes you immune to what’s happening in the wider world. The sheer fact that there is provisions for how to deal with divorce amongst believers let’s you know it’s nothing new…:-)

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Jayzeee

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Posted : 27 Jan, 2022 03:08 AM

* provisions in the bible *

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WalkNTalk

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Posted : 6 Sep, 2022 07:13 AM

It is all "For worse".



Children are the glue that hold a bad marriage together.

More marriages go the way of divorce and the one's that don't should.



Neil Young sany, "If the good times are all gone, then I'm bond for movin' on."



Paul said, "If the unbelieving spouse departs, let him"

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BiblicalPolygyny^

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Posted : 1 Mar, 2024 09:32 PM

If the worse is a woman destroying your life, better to obey scriptures and let her go

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