Single for almost 4 Years and Too Scared to have a boyfriend because have the traumatic with ex boyfriend

Posted : 10 Mar, 2017 09:27 AM

Hi,

I think you opening your heart to simple friendships is a tiny but bold first step to trusting again. May be in a group setting. Part of the healing comes with the realization that there are beautiful, kind-hearted, mature and not so messed up people out there.



People sometimes mishandle others because they still have baggage to work through. We are all a work in progress but others are a serious work in progress. sorry about your experience but girl... don't close the possibility of meeting a great person. He might just be waiting for you to break out of your fear and show up :-)