Am I that hideous?

Posted : 6 Jan, 2018 03:05 PM

Hi Passion, I have to say I agree with ObedientToTheWord. Your profile says you're looking for a friend, which is totally fine.

But in all honesty - seeing how most people (myself included) are here because they'd like to date, and you are, well, not a free man - that is a total turn off. I for one would not involve in messaging someone else's husband. Even as 'friends'. And why would I?!

Other factors like age, denomination and church involvement, want/doesn't want children could play a role, too - for some women you just aren't a good match. But you're not hideous! You're a child of God. Just get your situation sorted, and be totally honest with the women you'd like to pursue. And don't get discouraged but learn to be content in all circumstances, like the apostle Paul. God is teaching us to trust in Him with all of our heart, and not to rely on our own understanding.