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fa1th

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THANKS!!
Posted : 20 Jul, 2010 10:59 AM

Thanks to...



1babygirl

RockChick (just met today but very awesome person)

godslamb

kaynine22

southwestgal

and every other person that replied, said hi, checked out my profile, prayed for me, reached out to me, influenced me, and picked me up :D
fa1th

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Posted : 20 Jul, 2010 10:57 AM

Ok, seeing as I've been on this site for a while and posted my first bulletin yesterday i figured this would be a good post to end all for me :glow:.



I've met some nice people on here, especially those that took time to help me yesterday and post replies to my topic. I also met other ones who are good friends so not all my time here has been terrible. That being said, man i was hoping this site would be a good outlet. But with failed attempts to get most to reply, i think i'm just gonna call a time-out now and re-evaluate if this is the route i wanna take. I know i'm not a bad looking guy, i possess every quality in me i KNOW God has instilled in me so i walk away with my head above the clouds because the ignoring/etc. was only god protecting me and saying something better is waiting.



Lol i'm very sorry for the rant guys, i really am. I got a message today that confused the heck out of me and i think it's the last straw. I was talking to someone i started talking to today. Their profile said ask anything and i will answer. So we talking the messages get a little longer and i ask a question, tell me fav. bible verses and somethings other than you listed and it gets answer (short version) i find it a bore to list and can't be bothered, dont like writing and reading its tiring would rather someone in person etc. to get to know. Isn't that the whole point of online? To meet others you wouldn't have met in real life through a mutual median? Geeze.. Idk, i think this is a sign from god this isn't for me..So if nothing i've said has made impact..



To everyone on this site, enjoy. I will be praying for each and everyone of you to find that ONE god has made for you. Enjoy the ride through good or bad and know that god is building you for your other half.. I know it may not seem like it's coming but it is. I've always knew my day will come, i guess i've just been a lil impatient but guys hang in there and continue on. Keep god first, not the aspect of having someone and god will lead your heart to where it needs to be. As my family, I care for each of you and only wish the best :D So smile :dancingp: and keep Headstrong :D but as of today i'm out lol



Special thanks to 1babygirl, i think i will go enjoy my life thank you for your words. Good luck and God Bless guys.:peace:
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Needing some help!
Posted : 20 Jul, 2010 05:38 AM

1st and foremost thank each and every one of you that replied. It means a lot to receive kind words and i appreciate it to the fullest.



1babygirl--thank you for the advice and i will most def. consider it. I started young simply because i knew i was looking for something and what I wanted it to be. I think most of the problem on here is simply me seeing someone read something and them not replying leading me to think its something on my end. Instead of me accepting that God feels its not that time yet i get agitated. Your advice really gave me hope and made me feel better about the situation and i really appreciate your words.



kaynine22--I'm sorry you're going through the same thing as well. I think that's the point that gets me, the fact that it's been read and ignored and me not knowing why instead of trusting in God's word that if i ask with a pure heart and trust in his word it shall be done. I guess we both have to ask and let go :) Hope some of these pointers help you as well and hope things get better.



southwestgal--I will def. try the picture advice, only problem is i don't really like taking pics lol I got teased as a child about "Chester Cheetoh smiling" and that put a bad taste in my mouth about pics lol but i will try it. thank you for taking time out and responding, it's much appreciated.



godslamb-- thank you for the word's of encouragement, it helps to keep me going :D Thanks also for taking time out to read my profile and post some pointers. I'll try the headshot (if i can force myself to take one) and give it a go.



God bless everyone who posted and took time to read.
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Needing some help!
Posted : 19 Jul, 2010 07:25 AM

Hi Ladies,



First off, Thanks for taking time out to read this. I know you get a million of these a day but I really need help. This is my 2nd profile, I've been a member since 06? I think, but anyways I'm having difficult times getting anyone to respond and it's been that way since i first got here.



I've had the pleasure of meeting some very nice people here though those meetings have been few and far between. Two of which i became good friends with until one just completely stopped talking. I've tried different approaches to my profile, both short and long conservative and bubbly. I've had 5+ pics to now just 1 because it seems a waste if all people will do is click and delete.



So i guess what i'm asking is if you can take a look at my profile and tell me what is wrong , what needs improvement , and ratings on the pic i'd really appreciate it. I'm thinking of totally wiping the profile for good this time if I can't get this ball rolling. And yes i totally know it takes time and patience, i've tried for since '06 and i'm not rushing it but i am aware that repetition is a sign. When i see someone on here i'm interested in i write a nice message, no winks etc. and it still seems to fail but anyways Ladies, Help?