Open Letter to All the Women On Here..

Posted : 25 Jan, 2010 08:10 PM

The thing that annoyed me the most about the first few encounters with guys off this site is that inappropriate topics would come up SO soon in the conversation. Please, guys, we've all got a libido. We're all human, but please. This is the most discouraging thing ever--you think "oh this guy's a winner..." and then *splat* he brings up sex.



Also, something that's happened a couple of times now (and I've been on the site for maybe a week?) is that guys get sooo intense in the whole "getting-to-know-you" stage that they simply BOMBARD you with questions! I mean, I love it that they're asking. That's the sincerest way to show someone you're interested in them. But one guy freaked me out SO badly the first time we talked by grilling me for 2 HOURS about every aspect of my life. Then ended by asking if he could fly me out to meet him. I had been interested in him, but it quickly faded b/c I was so freaked out by his behavior.



Anyway. We're all human! :->