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tj121 View Profile	On what grounds can a man or woman divorce?...I know of only 2 are there more? Posted : 14 Sep, 2010 02:47 PM things I have heard from christians that I know say: I love him, im just not in love with him anymore... She gained weight after the baby and never lost it... he's a slob.... she never cleans or cooks.... he lost his job.... he quit his job... we just grew apart... he looks at porn on the computer... she looks at porn on the computer...(.40% of women look at porn daily.)..... She spends money like theres no tomorrow..... he gambles and we lost the house.... he said its either me or your mother..... she said its either me or your mother.... he just watches tv all the time.... She talks down to me ... He talks down to me.... he doesnt get me anything for my birthday not even a card... she doesnt get me anything for my birthday....not even a card She never wants to have sex... He never wants to have sex.... She wants sex all the time... He wants sex all the time..... and the list goes on and on...and on... Being the son of a pastor and being the adult sunday school leader/teacher for many years.....this doesnt even touch what i have heard over the years..... Would like to hear reasons why people have divorced personally ...or under what circumstance they think its okay to divorce...... please share and please no rebuttals aimed directly at any of the posters.....
tj121 View Profile	ONCE SAVED ALWAYS SAVED...????...heaven to hell and back again... Posted : 3 Sep, 2010 02:30 PM was curious about the doctrine of once saved always saved.....being the son of a great baptist preacher....i had heard this many times growing up and its still taught today.....I know what i believe today....its goes something like this... once saved always saved....? yes,no and yes...maybe...!!!! please share your thoughts on this.....TJ
tj121 View Profile	ONCE SAVED ALWAYS SAVED...????...heaven to hell and back again... Posted : 2 Sep, 2010 05:57 PM I was curious about the doctrine of once saved always saved.....being the son of a great baptist preacher....i had heard this many times growing up and its still taught today.....I know what i believe today....its goes something like this... once saved always saved....? yes,no and yes...maybe...!!!! please share your thoughts on this.....TJ

tj121 View Profile	once a cheater, always a cheater...??? what the bleep!!!!! Posted : 2 Sep, 2010 04:54 PM Today on avg. women cheat almost as much as men do.... . Today the number of women paying child support ....is hitting record numbers..... Today women are walking out on their marriages and leaving the husband and the kids behind ..... The moral of this story is this....There isnt one......
tj121 View Profile	once a cheater, always a cheater...??? what the bleep!!!!! Posted : 1 Sep, 2010 01:18 PM based on my years of research and experience....I have come to the conclusion that a person that cheats will almost 99.5% of the time cheat again and again......the .5 % is the rare case where a person cheated once and never cheated again.......whats your experience please share.......tj121
tj121 View Profile	Soul Mate/ Effortless Love....no such thing!!!! Posted : 30 Aug, 2010 05:22 AM Love only last about 2 yrs.......sorry ladies its a biological fact...its how God made us....the love that last a lifetime is not the euphoric feeling u get when you first meet someone ....this will fade away.....the love that last a lifetime is not an emotion but an act of the will...... Sorry ladies there is no such thing as a soul mate....if you keep looking for that you will be lonely...and if you think you found the one...and when it gets tough....you will say oh! he must not be the one and divorce again and again....... Love is not effortless..thats another myth , it takes work..... . The movies are a fantasy not a reality..its a form of escape and thats ok...you can still enjoy a romantic movie...