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romanticguy_1973
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The secret to finding love that no one seems to followPosted : 20 Mar, 2023 09:41 AMI believe that finding a partner for a longterm relationship or finding 'THE ONE' as lots of womens would call it is pretty simple.The problem is most people go about it the wrong way and then complain that they can't find it instead of thinking that they are the main reason why they cant find it.For years now people have had online dating available to them to find real love or to find a long term relationship and you would think with all the options available most people would find it easier to find true love but the statistics or the facts say otherwise.In 2023 its been proven that more people are single than ever before and there is expected to be more single mothers in the foreseable future also.Why is that? Why with all the resources to meet people like social media and online dating apps are people so single when lots of them want to be in a relationship?The answer is simple.UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS.UNREALISTIC STANDARDS.The internet since its invention has given people more options to meet people.And instead of using this tool to theyre advantage people have gone completey crazy with it and let it changed them.A long time ago when someone asked another person why are you single? and the other person answered 'well i just havent met the right one yet' it meant they hadnt met someone that they were reasonably attracted to and someone that was nice and that they clicked with.Things like that.But theses days when someone answers that it usually means something different.when a women says 'i havent met the right one' she means that she hasnt met a guy who ticks her 200 requirements boxes.Men act a bit the same too with theses things.Lots of men hang on dating sites hoping to meet a model when themselves are very average looking.So thats the biggest problem in todays dating world is too many options that created unrealistic expectations because of it.People think because there is more than can afford to be more choosy.It doesnt work that way.For example womens think because they get 100 messages in theyre inbox that thoses 100 men all wants a relationships with them when in reality maybe only 1 is interested in something serious and the rest only wants a boooty call.But for some reason most womens dont want to think about that lol.They want to pretend like all thoses men are actually interested in them.And also we live in the instant gratification generation.Most men online will be nice to a women and all to get what they want but once they get what they want they will change totally.But thats another thing that womens online dont want to think about.They dont worry about finding a man that is nice to them and treats them well because they figure they can find that every day online.What they dont get is that its easy to find someone who will treat you well for a time period until he gets what he wants but how many will actually treat a women good in the long term? Womens dont want to worry about that.Just like most men who are average online rather be single then get into something longterm with a girl who doesnt look like the model they think they can get.This is why most people today are single and why because of social media and dating apps people have changed and they have changed the dating scene with it.Unless people wake up and take a good look at how they are going about using theses tools and going about finding a mate there will be more single people in the future.
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romanticguy_1973
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Belief in christian values equals a partner who won't cheatPosted : 20 Mar, 2023 08:51 AMOk now i'm not saying that is always the case but i firmly believe that finding a partner that considers themselves a christian and who believes in god at least doesn't garantee you that your partner will not cheat or will always be honest with you in a relationship but i think it is a good start and the basis to start on.Cause let's face it.Why is there so much cheating around theses days and why is there so many singles out there who don't have what it takes to make longterm relationships work? Well the answer is pretty obvious.You look around theses days and outside of this site.For example go on another site like plenty of fish or other well known dating sites and how many profiles will you come accross where people will say that they are christian?Frankly not many.In many of thoses sites there is usually a category where people can say if they are religious or not and usually in that category they are way too quick to write 'NON RELIGIOUS' as if putting that they are is like something to be embarassed about or the most un-cool thing ever.Theses days lots of people cheat.Lots of people play head games.Lots of people are dishonest when entering into relationships or when dating.Its not being negative its just being honest about how the state of dating has become in 2023.It's not enjoyable for me to say it but it is a fact.And if you don't believe me just look everywhere in magazines,on television and on the internet and ask anyone on the street and most people will tell you that the dating situation out there theses days is bad.And what do all thoses people that behave badly on the dating scene all usually have in common? They have no religious beliefs at all.They don't believe in god and dont have values and morals.A person that believe in god and considers themselves a christian would not think of cheating.They would not think of purposely playing head games with someone.They would not think of purposely lying to someone.Thats just the way it is.Thoses that usually do all thoses things to people with no remorse or regret usually dont believe in god and have no faith or beliefs in anything.Thus they have no values and morals.
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