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auntiebecca

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weight issue
Posted : 24 Sep, 2008 08:24 PM

Thanks guys for your honest answers! That's what I want-no beating around the bush, but straight talk about this subject.
auntiebecca

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weight issue
Posted : 8 Sep, 2008 04:16 PM

that makes sense. Ok, so is weight a big issue for you men out there?
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weight issue
Posted : 7 Sep, 2008 09:01 PM

Ok, so I am overweight. I am working on it. Considering a gastric bypass. All my life my dad told me if I don't look good I won't get a husband. So I haven't put myself out there. Sure, I have liked my share of men, but I have been overly cautious. I don't put myself out there at church because I don't want them to reject me, so I don't step out. I don't know know to change. It's been this way for so long. I am more comfortable talking when people can't look at me for what I look like. I believe I am fun to be around because I am easy going and love to laugh. Is it possible for guys to see me for me, and not for the fat body?
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submission
Posted : 7 Sep, 2008 08:49 PM

I like that answer! Thanks!
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does colour really matter??
Posted : 29 Aug, 2008 09:05 PM

Here in Hawaii, there are many mixed marriages and it is acceptable. I have many friends here who are married to other races and they are accepted. I would totally cool with dating a man of any race. When I was younger, my dad said it is not wrong, but it can make things difficult. He is currently interested in a woman from the Philippines.
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What does it meant to be BF/GF?
Posted : 29 Aug, 2008 09:00 PM

To me it should mean they are a potential spouse material.
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submission
Posted : 29 Aug, 2008 08:58 PM

My parents recently divorced. My mom is soooo much better without him! He is currently in the Philippines meeting the 22-year old girl he has been talking with! He is 61 and is willing to have more kids. He thinks his new wife won't get tired of doing his every beck and call while he checks out porn and spends money. I am glad you can relate to a father who took 'submission' and gave it their own definition! Aloha!
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soul mate?
Posted : 29 Aug, 2008 08:46 PM

I was wondering what you thought of 'soul mates'? Do you believe there is only one person for each of us? Has God planned this out for us?



Just curious to see different peoples views.



Aloha,
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Aloha from Maui!
Posted : 29 Aug, 2008 08:41 PM

Thanks! How long have you been on this site?
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submission
Posted : 29 Aug, 2008 08:38 PM

I guess I struggle with this issue. My father was a minister while I was growing up. To him submission meant he got to move us around from city to city and spend money on whatever he wanted, and my mom would give her opinion and concern but he did what he wanted, and we suffered for it. He didn't do what was best for his family. I see this abused in many marriages. I don't want a marriage like that!
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